"Instinct Of The Hunter"/"The Thrill Of The Chase" (Bi men)

KD23:

Hell, you make a HELLUVA lot of sense, my friend; in your many years of m/m sex, I would indeed suspect that you've most likely seen (and heard) it all.

Let me tell you, I've seen MORE than enough porn through the years that black men do NOT have the monopoly on humungous cocks (as we both know); hell, I've seen countless photos of dudes of virtually every ethnic background (and skin color), and, man I've seen some MASSIVE trouser snakes!

I always believed (and always will) that dick size has little (or nothing) to do with one's ethnic background (or color)

Oh, and, like there are NO hung Asian or Oriental men?

Yeah, right!

Bringing up again the subject of "hunting" while on either a business (or pleasure) trip to a foreign country; ya gotta wonder just how many guys looking to hook up with other guys either look to their encounters with common sense, OR, fall victim to that tired old "all foreign guys have big cocks" schpiel.

A COCK is a COCK, right?

And it's how it's USED that counts, more than size...................

 

It's been my experience that a lot of guys on business trips want to be able to do something that's not all that easy for them to do at home: Experience sex with a man. For the first time or the fiftieth time. Whether to fulfill a fantasy or merely to feed their hunger for a man's body. Spur of the moment, it can be blamed on the alcohol, whatever works that gets dicks hard then made soft and with cum expended. The thrill of the hunt? Sure! The thrill of being hunted? Sure!

All that BBC crap? Irrelevant. They're like a dime a dozen these days (must be the water or something).

 

Recall the old saying: "When the cat's away, the mice will play?"

Translate that into a married guy waiting till the wife is out of town for a few days, so he can unleash his man-hunger and get it on with either am "established" FWB he already knows, or, some dude he just "hooked up" with online.

Again, the "the taste of forbidden fruit" must taste all the sweeter, when the married guy is thinking: "What the wife don't know won't hurt her."

Just hope, in this scenario, "wifey" does not decide to come home early!

 

Here's something else I learned: Silence is not golden, ignorance is not bliss, and what you don't know can hurt you. The sad truth of being bi and married is that you either find a way to get your dick fix in or you don't and you go without. Pretty straightforward and simple. Sometimes, it's any port in a storm and by any means necessary. An established FWB is all well and good if he's available when you need him, huh? Do you really believe that just hooking up with some guy is all that bad? Really? The thing about forbidden fruit is... why is it forbidden? Who forbade it and why? Do you really think and believe that being married keeps you from being hunted? Indeed, married men are favored over single men, but we knew that already, didn't we?

Good dick is where you find it. You relish the thrill of the hunt; you relish knowing that you are also being hunted. If you get caught, well, the best laid plans never survive first contact, do they? It's a risk that you take if you're a married dude and you have a taste for hard dick. Straightforward and simply, you're either going to take and accept the risk to get the cock you crave or... you stay on the porch. If you're away on business and on one of those dreary, rainy nights that has you sitting at the bar in your hotel staring into your drink and a guy sits down next to you to talk - and offer to suck your cock, what are you gonna tell him? You gonna tell him no because your wife, who is miles and miles away, might find out?

 

KD23:

Another of your "first class" responses; IMHO, it would seem that some guys who are (as you say) miles and miles away from the wife, and still so afraid that she will somehow find out that he has been with another man, is pretty much like a little kid stealing a cookie out of the cookie jar, when Mom is out shopping with her friends for several hours.....and, if no one is watching......who's gonna tell?

Hey, when a man has a serious case of blue balls, chances are his dick is going to be pretty much calling the shots, anyway............

 

You sure about that? I'm sure he'd think about it - which just might be thrilling - before he tries to rub one out in lieu of going to his local ABS and let someone who's starving to suck cock feed themselves at his expense. Speaking of which - and this is something I don't know a lot about - is where's the thrill of the hunt when will go to an ABS with a GH and stick their dick through a hole in the wall so some unseen guy can blow him? I've been trying to figure out how this works against a guy's stranger danger. I know it's just me but if you're willing to do that, why not see the guy attached to the dick or let him watch you suck his soul out of his body?

I digress, though. I had asked such a guy who was sitting on my bed, naked, how his wife - who was 1,000 miles away - going to find out that me and him sucked each other off a couple of times... unless he was going to tell her? He said that he would never tell her - and I understood that - but how was she gonna know? It was sad to sit there and watch him digest the questions I was asking him and then, I asked, "If you're so afraid that she's gonna know, why are you here and naked with me?" I wasn't going to hold it against him if he chickened out - hey, it happens and there's no shame in changing your mind. He thinks about it, shrugs, and leans over to take me into his mouth and I heard him mutter, "Fuck it..." just as the head of my dick disappeared into his mouth.

We had a great time after that. The whole time we're talking, I'm also thinking that, hey - he hit on me and not the other way around so I was having a problem understanding why you'd hit on a guy, tell him that you really want to suck his cock, and then don't do it because he didn't want the wife who wasn't there to know. Hell, I've traded blow jobs with guys from the hotel bar - and his wife was in their room! In one of my last trips, I sucked dick with a guy and later that evening, I screwed his wife except I hadn't known it until I saw them together at breakfast - and we're all trying to act like we don't know each other but this is the... after-thrill.

You see the guy the next day and he's trying to either act like he doesn't know you or trying to act "normally" but, yeah, you know, and you know that he knows and I have thought, as the guy went on about his day, that, yeah, I had him on the bed begging for God and Jesus to save him while I sucked all of the cum out of his balls - then tried to get more from him because these things are usually one night stands and I've rarely had a guy ask, "What are you doing tomorrow? Or mention how it's a shame that they're leaving in the morning and I'm thinking that, for one, I'll be here for another weeks and all I have to do is go to the bar and if I play my cards right, I'll be sucking some other dude off and he'll be sucking me off... because there's no such thing as a free lunch.

 

KD23:

I often wonder, if you bareback another guy, and breed him deep, if he realizes that, regardless what happens "the morning after", the moment you blasted his guts with your sperm, HE is now carrying a part of YOU inside him, and that "connection" can NEVER be erased, no matter what he may choose to believe, after the game has been played...........

 

I've had that thought after consuming a load of a guy's cum. Indeed, I remember reading some stuff (a long time ago) where partaking of a man's cum was a rite of passage for a soon to be newly minted man in a tribe's culture. The thought was that by taking his cum down the hatch - and I don't recall if fellatio was the method used to deliver the warm goo - the consumer was taking the essence of the man and would absorb the qualities that made him a good hunter, soldier, etc..

Personally, while I had found this to be quite interesting, I kinda called bullshit on it because it seemed to me to be the best way to get around the Christian religious taboo re homosexuality. I felt the same way when reading where homosexuality and, um, sex we'd decry as illegal today, was practiced in a lot of old cultures and as a part of teaching a man-to-be how to be a man and in every way that meant in those cultures. I felt that by claiming "it's our culture and way," it excuses homosexual sex and even though religion stood firm on the sin and taboo nature of such sex, those cultures continued these practices anyway... and not unlike how I know that I shouldn't suck cock but I'm gonna suck one.

I have never - and will never - buy into men breeding each other. I know when a guy has dumped a load of cum into me, sure, I might be leaking it but chances are that my next time to sit on the throne is going to remove any traces of him that my body didn't try to absorb. Yes, for a moment of time, I'm carrying a part of him - his seed - within me but not for long. Is some kind of connection established? Honestly, I don't know and I have no reason to think that one even exists except maybe in our imagination. I've had a lot of guys load me up and... other than he was expected and required to cum inside of me, so what? The only time it meant something more than a creamy end to a means was when I was in love with my gay boyfriend and, yeah, whew, I would watch his reaction when he felt my dick pumping inside of him and the look on his face was quite identical to looks I've seen on a woman's face in that same moment. What connected me and him was love and not the sex so much even though if was fucking fantastic.

I never heard him say anything to me about breeding him and, in that period of time, if he had, I would have looked at him like he'd lost his mind - and that's because I'd know for the longest time that you cannot get a man pregnant so breeding him was a preposterous notion - but, yeah, jelly babies. He did tell me, one day (and after he'd sucked me off) that he wished that he was really a woman so he could have my babies and... I felt so much love for him in that moment. Compare this to any other guy I'd fuck and cream and... it was sex, good, needs work, whatever, clean up, thank each other for a good time, and off to tend to other things that could include either getting creamed again or doing the creaming or doing some real breeding deep inside of a woman.

I've really only heard "carrying a part of him" come up when sucking cock but, eh, what do I know? This sounds like some romantic stuff, but I could be wrong about that, too. I will share that a guy had been fucking me one fine day, yelled out that he was going to cum and I felt his prick swell and felt him pumping it in me and for one crazy moment, I thought, "He's trying to get me pregnant!" The thought fucked with me as he finished cumming in me because the reality of what he was doing really came home to roost - and my mind knew that there was no way in hell he was really going to get me pregnant even though he'd just fucked me like I was a girl. It's still an embarrassing thought, though, and I'm glad the words never came out of my mouth.

You tell me that you're gonna breed me and, well, no, you won't because you just blew your chance to fuck me...

 

KD23:

Again, much "food for thought", as well as an honest, open, "up front" report on just "what's what".

Personally, I HATE when any man refers to his asshole (or one belonging to another guy) as his "man pussy"........TOTAL TURN-OFF for me.....but, then again, to each his own, I guess..........

 

Oh, yeah. The man pussy thing. Total turn off and deal breaker if you even mention "man pussy" to me. And guys who call their cock a clit. I respect that guys do this but... unless you're an FTM and you kept your pussy, you don't have one nor do you have a clit, dude but, yeah, to each his own. I didn't speak to my protege for damned near a month after he said that he couldn't wait to fuck my pussy... and I tore him a new one. I knew he was banging gay dudes who referred to their hole as a pussy and I reminded him that I am not gay nor am I a bottom so let's keep it real. Man, I was pissed but I cooled off and, okay, man or boi pussy. Whatever. I'm too goddamned old school and too literal for that stuff.

Talk about a couple of things that'll fuck up the thrill of the hunt...

 

KD23:

I hear you, man!

Even I know the DIFFERENCE between an ASSHOLE and a PUSSY!!!

Yeah, one of my BIGGEST turn-offs is hearing a guy (bi OR gay) referring to his asshole as a pussy.

And DON'T get me started on those guys (again, bi or gay) who, when bottoming, refer to themselves as the top's "bitch" ("Yeah, man, fuck your bitch good!)

Damn, does that turn me off............

 

Calling me a bitch will get you hurt. Period. I wouldn't call myself a bitch and I don't expect to be called one. Or being called a good little girl. I'm 6'1", 190 lbs., two black belts in judo and karate and I can street fight down and dirty (even at my age). Call me a good little girl... one more time. Last guy who called me a bitch was 30 years ago, and I broke his nose - and I let him off lightly. Ditto for the idiot who called me a little girl as I was sucking his balls. I ain't your bitch - homey don't play that shit. Ever.

 

KD23:

Good work, brother!

Well, to say you put those ignorant assholes in their place is to put it mildly; I'm only about 5' 7" and weigh about 152, but, let me tell you, even if I ended up getting the worst of it, NO WAY would I tolerate being called ANYTHING that is a slur on my masculinity........the ignorance and stupidity of some jerks while in the throes of "the passion of the moment", using asinine slurs like "pussy" and "bitch" and "girly" seems to go far beyond the limit.

I'd be like: Hey, you see that thick, rock-hard 9" rod between my legs? I'm more of a fuckin' man than YOU are, pal!"

All kidding aside, the ignorance of some truly makes me scratch my head, and wonder how they got so screwed up..............

 

You're a smart guy - you already know how they got so screwed up. Now, could - does - shit like this take the edge off of the thrill of the hunt? Perhaps stuff like this is what thrills guys to want to be hunted by those guys who get thrills out of humiliating another guy? On the whole, looking forward to being submissive for a man is what gives them the thrill of the hunt? Is the thrill a singular one? A multi-faceted kind of thing?

Or is the thrill of the hunt just a matter of leading guys on and making them think that you want them when your thrill is to just fuck with them, get their hopes up, and leave them high and dry?

 

KD23:

Your compliment is MUCH appreciated....thanks,

 

I don't understand the she-male thing. You won't suck a guy's dick or let him bone you... but you'll let a she-male do it. Suck her cock and swallow her cum but if a guy asks if you'd blow him, you go running home like Satan himself is chasing you. See, pegging is okay as long as it's a woman sticking it in - that's not gay at all. If a she-male wants to give him the high hard one, well, shucks, okay. "Todd" next door has been wanting to take your anal cherry ever since he moved in next door to you and saw you cleaning your pool naked (heh, heh) but if he asked, you're ready to pack up and move to another country or planet.

I don't wonder about guys who like to get their ass spanked by anyone. I don't care how straight or whatever they think they are or want to be sexuality-wise. I understand fetishes and the related stuff but do I wonder why it thrills them? Nope.

 

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It's not a double standard but I'm also not quite sure what it is other than it probably qualifies as a fetish. I don't understand the guy who says that (a) he's thought about oral sex with a guy but (b) he wouldn't want to really suck a guy's dick but (c) if it was a nice-looking she-male, sure, they'd suck her dick and anything else she might want to do and that, somehow, is both different and okay and in a way that doesn't make sense to me because the last thing I heard, natural-born women do not have a penis. I kinda get gender reassignment but if the new girl still has a cock - and a big one at that - okay, help me out here.

I'm not saying that having sex with a she-male can't be fun, exciting, and satisfying because I know it can be. I respect that they think of themselves as female or a "true hybrid" to be both male and female in appearances but... she has a dick and you're willing to suck her dick, but you wouldn't suck mine and... I'm not understanding this and, honestly, I've almost given up trying to understand it. Handle your bizness and enjoy the thrill of the hunt in whatever way works for you.

 

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