In the west, men dont get horny when girls wear mini shorts?

"the west" isn't really culturally monolithic. horney is one thing, but other objectives can take priority over sexual reproduction.

 

You should talk to girls as FRIENDS before you make comments like that.
That way you won't get snapped at or beaten up. It is quite easy once you get into the habit of treating them as real people, rather than just sex objects.

 

I told him the same...

Girls need friends the same as anyone else.

 

Their is truth in what you say, but in some countries it happens too much and women just feel harassed when approached by complete strangers who make comments like that as an opening.
It is all about context and finding the right moment.

 

There is no right moment.

I've been away from opposite all my life. I am very close to turning 30.

 

Not really.


Girls need handsome or rich guys.

They could just be friends with their same sex.

 

That's your ego talking @Grandeur. Girls are ultimately a lot like guys. That shallow superficial stuff that you keep referring to is an act. They understand that guys struggle to make money, and that it isn't easy. And everyone strives for companionship.

When it comes to marriage it's a little more complicated, I agree. In that case there is the issue of stability, but I don't think all women are trying to marry into wealth. That's misguided thinking...