In secret or open about it?

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  1. Naked_Toes

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    This would probably apply more when you were younger, but if you were masturbating and were about to be interrupted, would you quickly try to hide it and act like you weren't doing anything or simply say what you were doing?

    As an example, if a friend stopped by or your parents knocked on your door while you were right in the middle, would you panic and stop or would you simply say 'hang on a minute, I'm masturbating' and finish as it's no big deal?
     
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  2. Sir Arthur

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    I tell people. It’s a turn on for me though. I like if people watch too.
     
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  3. Naked_Toes

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    Yep, that's why it's kind of interesting that there is such an extreme between the two sides. Some people won't until they're home alone or in the shower behind a locked door, and the are some who will practically do it in a room full of people and not bat an eye.
     
  4. Goander

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    I think it is a natural reaction to cover it no matter who it is before you realize.
     
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  5. Bryce

    Bryce A nut busting poster is a happy poster!

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    Friend? Wouldn’t care. Would tell him to give me a minute to let me do my thing.

    Parents? I’d probably stop and act like I wasn’t doing anything (if I could). Although I’m pretty sure parents know when they catch their kid in the act what they are doing.
     
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  7. Alternative_Thinker

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    My mother has caught me on several occasions during my teen years, and despite the fact that she is very sexually conservative, I think she handled it reasonably well considering.

    If/when I have my own family, though, I'd definitely want to create a positive. understanding, and shame-free environment within our home where masturbation is a "perfectly natural thing" to quote Jim's dad from American Pie.
     
  8. MilGuy206

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    Anyone other than my parents or grandparents, it wouldnt bother me. I would most likely pause for a second but wouldnt deny or cover up.
     
  9. JudeLawless

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    Usually in private, but I have done it with others and in front of others. I like to be watched. My favorite is to master bate while going down on a woman!
     
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  10. flasexwriter

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    I am very open about it.
     
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  11. I'll Be Waiting

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    I would be embarrassed to say I'm jerking off
     
  12. Littleshygirl

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    I definitely keep it to myself
     
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  13. Monarch61

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    Nah, I would hide myself pretty much no matter who walked in on me jacking it, unless it was someone who was gonna jack along with me :smirk:
     
  14. Cumbrewer

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    I grew up with four brothers and two sisters. I knew for a fact a lot of masturbation was going on as I was jacking off too... alot! Three upstairs bedrooms for seven kids. Luckily the folks had their bedroom downstairs so they didn't come upstairs too often. Us males had to be open about it otherwise finding enough time to do it privately would have been damn near impossible.
     
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  15. Fallingstarshower

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    In secret. Although the idea of being open about it does intrigue me....
     
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  16. Augres

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    I am with you Fallingstarshower
     
  17. Panama Jack

    Panama Jack Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Open about it. My wife is intrigued by me masturbating. I don’t do it often but she loves to give me a hand job. Same thing really. She loves to watch it spurt out. I don’t have much force anymore. Age I guess. But I still get good ropes and lots of post cum clear dribbles. All good in my house.
     
  18. nldn

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    I have always made sure I cannot be interrupted.
     
  19. Panama Jack

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    Fuck her real hard in 2 positions, pulled out a let her suck it. She proper up and I stroked my cock until it shoot on her 38D. No, I don’t need to be private. She loves to watch me masturbate.
     
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  20. Michael1985

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    In secret, but on here I get to be as open about it as I want. :D
     
  21. My wife and I haven’t had sex in about 12 years.... I’m sure she knows I jack off but hasn’t asked me or said anything about it. We sleep in separate rooms so I can stroke my cock all night long if I need to. I had a coworker that liked to watch me jack off so we would meet after work at different places and I’d stroke for her.... she loved watching me cum, it would get her so excited to see me squirt
     
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