In public

I have a desire to do more risqué things in public places but my partner is very hesitant to consider it. Maybe because of covid or maybe because he's actually from the place we live and I'm just a blow in lol. But we have fun in plenty of colourful ways but on this he really seems reluctant.
I've got very little worries about what the locals think of me and laugh off them staring at my mad clothes or whatever but he's a lot more easily embarrassed.
Should I just respect his boundaries or is there anyway to encourage him to go for it.

 

It's hard for a guy to get use to the idea of being nude in front of people. never minded skinny dipping back in the day. I never liked public nudity, always felt like people like

seeing women, but as a man I always felt like the guy with the rain coat, and nothing under flashing people, like you see in cartoons. And a man might be more likely to be arrested.

 

Take a trip out of town where nobody knows either of you and see if he's more receptive of the idea . It works for my wife and she really gets into it .

 

This is on my bucket list. My wife has had sex in public in the past including at a park and a library but won't do it with me. She says she's afraid she'd lose her job if we were caught.

 

Back in 1985-1986, when my wife and I were in an active MFM threesome with a close male friend, we used to visit a natural hot springs in the mountains, about two hours away from our home. Sometimes, all three of us went and sometimes is was just my wife and I. This was a "clothing optional" springs and, for most people, it was full nudity. Once, when it was just my wife and I making the trip, we ended up sharing the main pool with half a dozen local hippies (mixed gender). It was nighttime and there was very little artificial light. After we'd been in the water for a while, my wife slid over and sat in my lap. Then, she very carefully reached down between her legs, gripped my (erect) cock, and guided it into her pussy. Once I was completely inside her, she start to rhythmically squeeze me. I quickly started to do the same thing to her breasts. We weren't disturbing the water at all and I doubt the hippies (who were sitting less than ten feet from us) knew what was going on. After about five minutes, I (quietly) blew my wad inside my wife's pussy. I didn't pull out, but just stayed inside her until I went limp. Even after that, I continue to firmly massage her breasts for another 10-15 minutes. On the drive home, I told my wife that the next time we came up to the hot springs with our MFM partner, she should do the same thing for him that she'd just down for me and she was completely on board with that idea. Unfortunately, for a variety of reasons, the opportunity never occurred.

To this day, I get a kick out of reminding my wife that we've fucked right in front of total strangers... and it was her idea!

 

Amazing. What I wouldn't give

 

My spouse and I fucked in many a public place when we were active. At home or on the road it didn't matter. But that was just us. It's not for everybody. Take Pythons advice and go away for a weekend or vacation and then suggest it. If he balks at the idea then you know he is just too shy to exhibit himself that way. It could be he's scared about the results of getting caught. If that's the case public sex with him won't be fun because he will be all pent up with concerns about somebody seeing you two share your love.

 

Thanks guys. I like the idea of the weekend away. Although with current restrictions it could be a while before that can be arranged

 

My first wife liked to blow me in the public pools at hotels while on vacation with lots of people around. She'd stroke me hard take a deep breath and plunge under and suck my cock, come up for air and stroke me some more then back under she'd go. I'm not even sure people even caught on to what she was doing, they were busy and occupied.

 

My husband seems a lot like yours. I get turned on about the idea of sex in a restaurant bathroom or blowjob in a parking deck. My husband is much more concerned about getting caught in public due to his job. He is pretty law-abiding when it comes to those things. We went to dinner a few weeks back and I whispered at the bar that I didn't have any panties on if he wanted to sneak to the hall and slip a little something up my skirt. He was completely shocked and incredibly turned on. He would never have sex in a hall or back room, but he may have slipped a hand up my skirt to feel my wetness and it was a complete tease the whole Dinner.

 

One day I decided to make a list of all the people I had been naked in front of - it was a huge list that included my then in-laws, my then brother-in-law and his girlfriend, my cousin and his wife - it goes on and on. Whenever I have been drinking and I see a swimming pool, I think it would be great to go skinny dipping - the problem is no one else ever joins me. So there I am cavorting naked in the pool like a seal while everyone watches.

 

Me too whenever I stay in a hotel I look for an opportunity to skinnydip. Last time I was at a work retreat and the hotel pool was "closed" for renovations yet there were no locked doors or gates so at midnight I went out, disrobed and had a cheeky dip it was awesome.

 

I always expect that everyone else is going to disrobe and jump in but then no one does. Oh well, we enjoy our cheeky dips!

 

I always wanted to be nude in public but have not had the chance. I enjoy driving nude and this is the closest I have come. Once a few years ago at a local sea food restaurant that wasn't busy I looked across the room and noticed a woman rubbing her males friends crotch with her bare feet. It was a hot summer day outside and a bit warm inside. I glanced back and noticed he had his hard cock out and she was going to town on it with her feet. I looked back again and could tell he had cum and she even had some on her foot. That made my day and just wish it was me getting the foot job.

 

I'm inclined to answer both, what I mean by that is, try and see if maybe he is up for it if isn't in the town where you live but somewhere close by possibly

 

I would like my wife to dress more risqué when we are out and she knows it. She will be mildly more adventurous sometimes but is always wary of who we might bump into. Neither of us wants to embarrase the other infant of friends or work colleagues.
We have agreed that once the lockdowns are over we will go away for weekends and be a lot more risqué. Her dressing up more ( or maybe a bit less ). Her flirting with other men and just generally enjoying ourselves and seeing where it all leads.

 

Perfect idea.....get out of town and let your hair down . Have some fun and let us know how it works out .

 

Both me and my partner enjoy dressing very daringly and going out in very public places and having lots of fun doing risque things together. We push each others boundaries choosing what each other wears and where we go and what we get to in public. But we know when we've clearly crossed the line and if we are dressed too risque we'll still go out but go somewhere new and further away where we won't meet anyone we know. Perhaps that's the issue for him, the chance of someone he knows seeing you, so I'd say encourage him to go for it but out of town somewhere you haven't been before.

 

That's basically what we have since done. I made a picnic and we went to lakeside about an hour away and when we got there I had worn something sexy under my clothes. He didn't take too much encouragement when threw my jacket and skirt into the water ha.

 

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