In my 30s, think about sex a lot

Just wondering I’m 34, turning 35 next month and I think about sex all the time. My fiancé tells me that’s all I think about. But I feel like as I get older the more comfortable I am and so I just don’t hold back by talking about it. Any others like this? Idk if that’s uncommon or not…

 

If you really think about it all the time, it's likely a problem in that it will get in the way of things you say are important to you, like earning a living and maintaining a good relationship with your spouse-to-be. Thinking about it isn't at all wrong, but you do need to discipline yourself to concentrate on other things. You have to be able to maintain conversations and produce things that don't involve sex.

Now, if you don't mean "all the time" but rather frequently and spontaneously, that's totally normal, especially for post-pubertal male humans. Men are 6 times as likely to be spontaneously aroused as women are. Women tend to be responsively aroused. For every woman sitting at a conference room table during a work meeting and fantasizing about sex, six of the men at the table are doing it. That you can think about sex for no apparent reason - it just pops into your head - totally normal at age 15, 35, or 75.

Now, talking about sex is another matter. You can think about it all you want, but if you bring it up in the wrong context and without sensitivity to "read the room,'" you may find yourself, divorced, friendless, and fired for cause. There's a time and a place for everything.

 

Whew.... I guess I'm normal after all.

 

I used to think about sex in my teens,20’s, 30’s and 40’s. But now I’m in my 50’s ….. I still think about it and want it.

 

I am in my 70's, think about sex all the time

 

Says every man from age 10 until they close the lid.

That's why we can't understand most women. "Honey, you seem to be deep in thought, what are you thinking of?" "Oh, there were these cute pink heels I saw on line ...here..." "Oh? I was thinking we should have sex on the couch right now" "Oh, but do you thing they'd make my ankles look fat?"

 

I was so horny yesterday i hadnt wanked or had sex for a few days. I went to a hardware shop and the girl who served me smelt and looked so good i just wanted sex from that moment. Managed a hat trick with the girlfriend since yesterday so its all good.

 

Yeah same here, basically all day every day

 

Nah...never. Wait a minute.............where am I ?

 

In my 40s yet and think about it very often. Definitely will in my 50s too.

 

And , no doubt , it'll continue until dementia hits. Hope it never does but then we probably won't even remember it and we probably won't miss it .

 

I just hope I'm not that guy in the nursing home...."there he goes again, Nurse, can't you just give him more saltpeter??"

 

Yeah, those young guys who say every 30 min or so,.... in our 70s it slows down, it's only every HOUR now! Eighteen hours a day.

 

I think I'm thinking about it even when I'm not. It's like a background operation.