My wife and I aren't having sex but that's another post for another day. It's incredibly hard to live without it. Something that helps me cope is touching her in her sleep. If I wake up and she happens to be on her back (and often she has her arms above her head) I put my hand on her halfway between her navel and vagina. I don't know if that part has a name but I love it so much. She's unshaven because I like a full bush and having my hand on her such that it's half on her pubes is magic. Just ten minutes like that and it reestablishes the sexual connection between us. Sometimes I move my hand down so that it's completely in her pubes like I did last night and maybe start stroking her but usually I just savour having my hand there and go no further. She sleeps through just about anything but what usually happens is eventually she senses my hand there and rolls over. She never mentions it in the morning so I'm sure she sleeps through it all. It reminds me of the days when I would finger bang her until she woke up with an orgasm then I'd fuck her. I hope things change soon because I miss sex so damn much.
Anything happened to her? Or medication for depression or something else? Many medication decrease the sex drive, or inhibit it
