I’m curious to know, who here prefers to get off with just their own imagination and who prefers stimulation? imagination = just from what’s in your head Stimulation = aids like talking to someone, porn, photos, audios, litrotica Either can use toys. I found recently that I orgasm way stronger by just using my imagination but I wonder if that’s quite rare? Very occasionally I have used kik to send voice notes and photos but tend to get bored eventually and the orgasms aren’t great. I don’t like that feeling of having to perform and when they say something I’m not into, it puts me off. So I’ve ended up deleting my account. I do watch porn/listen to audio if I want something to get me going. But nothing is as strong as my imagination and building a scenario in my head. What about you? Do you always need something to look at/listen to?
I use my imagination quite often. There are times with or without visual stimulation when some orgasms are better then another.
It depends on the mood. Sometimes it’s stimulation like porn or pics or chats. Other times it’s just my fantasies in my head.
I used to watch prone when I was younger, but now the imagination is the only way that I get on to ejaculate. Brainpower is ultimate particularly for sexual imagination. Some years ago I tried to ejaculate without touching physically, just by fantasizing and brain visualizing. I was successful to ejaculate just a couple of times, but now it is hard to ejaculate without physical stimulation.
From when I first started masturbating at 13, ANYTHING worked. Moving forward, I’d say imagination was the primary until I was maybe 40, then stimulation. It’s always been a mix of the two.
I like all kinds of porn but it's in concert with my imagination. I watch and think of what I'd do next or what she'd do to me or what I'd like to see. Most of the time when I masturbate in the morning, I'm not remembering something that happened, I'm elaborating on it in my mind. I like when people send me pics. They're real and it's a huge turn on. And it doesn't have to be porn. Over the weekend a friend sent me a pic of herself at a bar with another girlfriend. They had walked a long ways in the cold and even though she was dressed warmly, she had pokies showing from the cold air. That's what she sent me along with a reminder that they would be in her boyfriends mouth later that night. I've already masturbated once thinking of that pic and imagining her nips getting out and sucked. Now that I'm thinking of it, I think that will be what I'll imagine in a few minutes.
Both. Visual or audio stimulation. I don't last as long using it. My imagination is endless and can take me anywhere. I've been writing erotica for my own use for the last few years. I'll get my imagination so turned on that I'm hard while typing away. I ignore my cock as long as possible, then stop typing and stroke, thinking about how my story will continue.
I like reading erotica story which is written by the unprofessional writer, so would you please post some of your stories? Thanks a lot.
I usually use nothing but my hand and brain....often thinking only about how good it feels. Sometimes, usually when I am bored, I'll start off with a little amateur porn or some amateur writing to get things rolling.
My imaginatio is soooo much more erotic and inspires much more intense, earth-shattering orgasm/ejaculations than porn -- though I do enjoy amateur homemade self-filmed porn at times ...
I didn't want to get used to using porn, then it would be, well, I want to watch so I can get turned on, then it would be I need to watch to get turned on.....
I write them for my personal use/pleasure. They range from wife sharing, mfm, bi, and some rather kinky/taboo stuff. But they’re for me. If you have a specific interest I’ll see if I can find one and PM you.
Imagination and memories of things I've done Getting a little hard now thinking of a time a girlfriends friend walked in on me while I was masturbating. I was too close to stop, she locked her eyes on mine while I finished. My girlfriend showed up a few minutes later, we laughed about it. I wondered about leaving the kitchen door unlocked all day.