Im too shy.....

ok you guys....i found his myspace and it says hes single and hoping to find a right girl for him....and he has thjhe same sign as me!! pisces! lol i wanna type a myspace message but i dunno if thats gay or not. its the only way i can actually talk to him

 

Why would messaging someone of the opposite sex be "gay"?


No, I know what you're getting at, but it's a ridiculous word to be using. And offencive to people who are gay.


Just do it, just message him. Be like "hey, weren't you the guy I saw the other day? What's up, how's school, etc."

 

yeah, if you've got a way to message him, go for it!.....much better than standing around watching and waiting for his friends to bug off so you've got a moment alone

good luck!

 

well he siigned on today but never responded back...guess he turned me down, at least i gave it a shot

 

Keep trying

 

you really think i should? I mean him not responding, i dunno what that means or what to say now. im starting a new schedule tomorroe and im hoping to find him in one of my classes. but if not, what should i say to him?

 

he may just be a lousy corresponder ......you may have to catch him in person to get something started, but don't take his lack of response as getting blown off or turned down - always give someone the benefit of the doubt til you know otherwise

i bet you're both just equally shy, is all

 

there could be so many reasons why he haven't responded to your message. But its good enough that you did it. He'll surely recognize you now. Well, all you really have to do is to have the guts. Just don't be nervous and shy. Don't let him feel that it is such a big deal for you because he might get conscious or something. Be confident and act casually, calmly. Now that you have started it with myspace, you can approach him in person, tell him you found his myspace account and sent a message or something like that. Just use that opportunity to approach him.


good luck.





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