I'm socially incapable.

im not very good at english... what does this mean?

 

blase means boring

 

illstyleee... that's me in a nutshell. i'm okay around strangers because like indian summer said you can be anyone you want to be, but around people i know and love, like my friends, sometimes i just clam up.

i hate it because they probably think the opposite... that i dislike them which isn't true. it's because i care so much... it's so confusing.

 

wish everyone could be like bravesirrubin -- kudos for being yourself

it's always been a mystery to me how i can be so petrified of opening my mouth and other people can just blab away about anything and be very outgoing and gregarious and not think twice about it or even think at all... and it takes so much work for people like me

 

aw but shy pple are cute.. and if u're shy only around pple u like, they should spot it and if they dont then they probably dont matter.
and illstyleee its funny cuz your sig pic kinda gives away that u're shy.. but yea, dont worry, as u can see a LOT of pple are shy around pple they like and its not that much of a flaw

 

maybe

 

This world would be a complete mess full of dirty dishes if everyone was like me

Shy people are cute though. I wants me a shy girlfriend who truly opens up to me and likes to dance

 

yesssssssss, shy i am.
but, hey, us shy people are cool.

 

i prefer "introverted" to "shy" :H

 

I am shy too... it really sucks. I am 18 and so far have liked several girls (probably 5 or 6 major crushes), and have had 0 dates... I have asked out 2 girls, but couldn't follow up with one girl because I got nervous, and the other one turned me down because I am too weird... Hahaha.

now, there is this one girl at work who I really like, and everyone at work can tell, exceot for her, hahahaa! So I spend about evey possible minute talking to her at work, and we have hung out outside of work a few times, but I am having a hard time actually asking her out... Which probably isn't a bad thing, because she just got out of bad relationship...

 

I am only shy around people I am interested in... Otherwise, I am extremely extroverted! I can't stand being alone for more than about half a day, otherwis eI start getting depressed.

 

she probably can tell, actually. females have a higher awareness of things like this than men do, i think.

 

hahaha, if i were the same way, i probably would have killed myself by now.

often i feel extremely uncomfortable when in groups of people when i don't like all of them. i am much more at home when i'm alone or with a cool friend.

 

Yeah, but I like almost everyone I meet.

 

In think they do too... But I don't know. I used to think she knew, but now I don't think she does... Not too sure, though...

 

she probably does.... and she either is waiting for you to make a move/is really annoyed that you haven't/couldn't care less. so what have you got to lose?

 

yep i too get depressed when i haven't been around people... even though i'm introverted

 

humans are inherently social creatures

 

I don't know... Because I have made many efforts to be nice to her/spend time with her... And she seems to enjoy it as much as me. But it started feeling incredibly platonic after a while, whereas it didn't used to...

I think she still, or at least did, has/had a thing for her ex or something. She talks about him quite a bit. But we spend a lot of time together, for a while some people at work thought we were already dating...

 

Sometimes it is easier to make everyone else look bad than it is to elevate yourself. It worked for me, and after all, humility is a virtue.