I'm into spanking

I've been bi for years and have always enjoyed spanking or being spanked by the person I'm with. I've had a few boyfriends and girlfriends during that time. Most of them were reallly into it. I like spanking for fun but especially, for discipline.

 

I like a firm hand spanking or a paddling when I really misbehave.

 

It just shows what a wide subject this is. Everyone is different .

 

I think spanking is great foreplay, too..Having my bottom smacked or slapping the person's ass I'm with before, during or after sex is hot.

 

If you like spanking as foreplay then try this .

Place yourself on all fours on the bed with your legs parted. Allow your partner to spank you gently or firmly ( your choice) with one hand whilst caressing your lady region with the other .That conditions my partners body ready to make love quite quickly and often will make her squirt .

 

I've done this often with my girlfriend.

 

Me and her are into spanking, for sure.. We both love each other's butts.

 

Its an excellent foreplay technique but the "vanilla " people are reluctant to try it because of the "spanking" element . I don't know of any other technique that conditions a woman's body so quickly . The spanking element as in our case only needs to be done very lightly .

 

I agree 100%

 

It's interesting that you're equally into being the spanker as well as the spankee. Most people who enjoy it, have a definite preference for giving or receiving, but not both. I'm more in the mainstream in that I seek out one particular role for my own pleasure, but am willing to take the other role to please a partner.

 

I'm the more dominant one in my current relationship with my girlfriend who is very submissive. I usually am in the "spanker" role with her for erotic spankings and for discipline ones.

 

Yes the things we have to do in the name of love

 

Just wondering if you have ever done the role of the "brat" in the relationship ? It can be fun making it awkward and resisting .

 

I did that all the time with one of my ex boyfriends.

 

Yes it is the role for the submissive ,so your current partner probably wouldn't try it and anyway you would know with your experience how to counteract it if she tried .

 

I enjoy spanking and being spanked.

 

No...nor would I want to.

 

You really need to know what your doing as these are parts of the body which are not designed to take "hits" unlike the buttocks .

 

I can think of a lot better things to do to these two areas on a woman than spank them.

 

Have you ever administered spankings to your boyfriends over your knee?