The man I've been dating for almost 2 years now (and soon to be married to) is everything to me. I am truly in love with him, and I never thought I could love a man (bisexual, prefer girls). Every morning, he gently wakens me with a kiss on the cheek(or by humping me in his sleep lol), and gets up, letting me sleep some more (I sleep alot). I wake up to find him playing a video game or watching tv, and I crawl up to him and kiss his back (he likes that ;p). He turns around and hugs me tightly, burying his face into my neck and kissing it gently. "Good morning, beautiful." he says to me. I say "Good morning, beautiful." back, and he just grins and kisses me. I usually lay back down, and he usually comes with me until his friend wakes up. After the day is over, we lay down and cuddle for a good hour. I like being the little spoon when we cuddle, which makes it easier for me to turn him on and get him going ;p The sex though, is amazing every single time. It usually goes on for about 3 or 4 hours, and he knows every way to make me feel good. He also has a nice appendage (8 inches omg), which is a change from the only other guy I've slept with (4 inches pfft). He was also a virgin when I met him, which actually surprised me. He's fucking sexy, and I'm really surprised no other girl hopped on his dick like I did ;P But even though he was a virgin, the sex was amazing right from the beginning. He's fucked me so good since I've been with him, I always want his cock in me, every second of every day. They say the more you have sex, the more you want, and its true. He's turned me nympho. I don't know how he does it, but he amazes me every time we make love with how he does it and how he can make me orgasm in less than 10 seconds. Crazy, right? To anyone reading this, I hope you get a lover that satisfies you as much as he satisfies me, and that they also love you a lot and give you attention like he does to me. Everyone deserves a soulmate, right? c:
I'm happy for you. Although, there are two things............ One, there's nothing wrong with penises that are 4 inches. That other guy you slept with will satisfy someone else with his 4-incher. And two, from what you've said on your post, it sounds like you two are very sexually compatible. But my question is, what exactly makes you feel that this guy is your SOULMATE? I have a girlfriend and she and I are starting to feel like we are each other's soulmates. So I'm just curious, lol.
Well... Being with girls for many years without ever touching a man really stretches you out so, it didn't work very well down there with 4 guy(I still loved him when we were together, of course). However, he did end up with my ex girlfriend who was waaaay tighter than me, so I think he's happy ^^ I feel like he's my soul mate because we know everything about each other, we know what ticks each other off, but we choose not to make each other mad. We barely ever argue, and when we do, its usually because he said something out of context and I took it the wrong way. But mostly, its because I know I want to be with him the rest of my life. He's given me love that no one else has ever given me, or ever will give me. He's supported me through tough times with my family, and he's never given up on me. I've actually broken his heart before(a few months after we started dating), but even then he didn't give up on me. He still wanted to be with me, and I realize I still wanted to be with him, no matter what came between us, whether it be my fluctuating sexual preference, or his melting brain (pcp is a bad drug).
I see. Thank you for explaining it to me. What you said about your boyfriend is similar to the way I feel about my girlfriend, and how she feels about me. In a way, our situation is a lot more straightforward than yours; we're both heterosexual and neither one of us has broken the other's heart. But in a way, it's just as complex; we're in a long distance(5000 miles apart), inter-generational relationship and it's going to take some time until we can actually meet up for real. It DOES feel like we're soulmates though, because, for one thing, our personalities click like they've been custom-made for each other. We don't fight even though we are different individuals. Sometimes we have differing opinions, but those are respected while we focus on a more important stuff: how well we can communicate with each other and stuff like that. Being in this relationship with her is very exciting, but also very comforting at the same time. We seem to understand each other very well and, because of this, we feel comfortable being totally honest with each other. She even knows my innermost secret, lol. As for our sexual compatibility, let's just say we are very happy in that department so far as well.
Im glad to see your happy with her ;w; It always make me smile when someone has found someone else they love very much >w< I hope you guys last a while, and I hope you get to meet up as well. I've been in a long distance relationship before, and its kind of hard sometimes, but if you love them, you can get through it c:
Thanks This is my third long distance, online relationship. The first one was actually with an ex-member from this site. We dated for like a couple months in 2006. And the second one was three years ago, with a nice girl from another website, for about a month. My current girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over four months now, and have known each other for almost six months. So this is the longest online relationship I've had, and the second longest relationship overall(the longest relationship was with my physical ex-girlfriend many many many years ago, for two and a half years). But I've never been happier in my life where romance is concerned, despite the long distance aspect. Of course, we try to be creative and make sure the relationship doesn't get boring, or frustrating. We have "movie dates" on weekends where we watch the same movies simultaneously while chatting on Skype. It's fun. When we feel like talking to each other in sort of a "face-to-face" manner, we use our webcams to get as close to the real face-to-face interaction. I recently found out you could make eye contact with the other person via webcam chat. We smile at each other fully knowing that we're looking right into each other's eyes, even though we're thousands of miles apart. It's actually pretty trippy, lol. I recently started waking up with her via Skype during her school days as well. My work schedule allows me that luxury, despite the time difference, lol. I set my alarm clock to whatever time she has to wake up at, and I get up and message her when she's supposed to wake up. It's almost feels like we're actually together for real and waking each other up...sort of, lol. Anyway, I wish you all the best as well. I'm sure you two will be fine, considering you've lasted about two years so far especially with certain elements(your sexual preference and the effects of the drugs on his part) that may otherwise potentially jeopardize the relationship. You guys must be highly compatible with each other.
you really just have to be committed. I also had a relationship from here. Unfortunately his commitment found someone else, but that's okay Best of luck :love:
Just popping in, point of view from an 8 year relationship, there is NOTHING wrong with disagreeing or having an argument every once in awhile. Disagreeing and overcoming those disagreements is a very important part of a healthy relationship. That doesn't mean either of the people in this thread who have found their "soulmates" are wrong, but I'm saying not to be crushed when an argument does arise (you are different people, you won't agree on everything and if you are in agreement with everything 100% all the time, you'll grow bored of each other) because if you can resolve your differences, you will come out stronger as a couple from it.
The commitment aspect isn't a problem for me. If I decide to be in a relationship with someone, that means I commit myself to that relationship until a closure is brought to it for whatever reason that we may have. I'm a hopeless romantic, and my partner needs to be able to appreciate that aspect of me in order to make the relationship work. Or else many fights may occur over trivial matters due to their being much harsher to me verbally, or they might accuse me of being too detached from the real world because that's just how I roll, lol. Luckily my current girlfriend is just as sensitive and emotional and gentle and romantic as I am. Thanks! I hope you've since found someone special, too. I agree 100% Ramona. In fact, my girl and I are definitely two completely different people. She and I also talk about this very thing about future arguments and things, but we both believe that we can work out whatever problems that might arise by communicating well, and with honour and respect. By the way, did I read on another thread that you're married now? I've seen you around the site since 2005, and I JUST read about it today, lol. xD Well, congrats!
Honey, I really hope things work out for you, but know this much: "He still wanted to be with me, and I realize I still wanted to be with him, no matter what came between us, whether it be my fluctuating sexual preference, or his melting brain (pcp is a bad drug)." Anyone on any kind of altering drug is not in a state of reality. Especially one as big as a love relationship. And as to his sexual prowess and claiming to be a virgin before your intimate union, I have to really wonder at the validity of that claim. Be careful. - JKHolman
