I've just come out of a long term relationship with my ex, since a young age i always knew i was into girls, i think everyone did. I've always been with girls, I've kissed guys when i was younger and experimenting but thats a far as it goes, but since this break up i have developed a new found interest in men, is this because most of my friends are male and they've been so supportive that I'm just reading into it to much as I'm not gonna lie the thought of sleeping with a guy repulses me but i can't get it out of my mind! is it one of those thing you just need to try? all advice welcome, anyone else been through a similar thing
Many of those supportive men just want to get into your pants. Some think they can "cure" you of your interests in women. Just out of a long term relationship is not the time to think about changing who you are. As much as you are hurting now, give yourself time to heal. Do things you enjoy doing that maybe your partner did not enjoy. And most of all, don't dwell too much on what caused the breakup. You may not believe it now, but eventually you will feel better. I have survived two divorces.
First time does heal all wounds and you will get passed this. Find activities to occupy your time so you don't dwell on your loss more than necessary. As far as trying out a guy...are you at all attracted to men? Do they ever turn you on, or a part of them (nice chest, butt, bulge, legs, etc)? You say you are repulsed by the idea of sleeping with a guy..is that true or is that your masculinity talking? If a guy can awaken sexual feelings like a woman can, then give it a go. If not at all, then dont force your emotional state jnto something that isn't there. That's the best I can offer based on limited information you provided. Best wishes.
Hi guys thanks for your advice, i have now realised i just need to get myself back on track and stop worrying about labelling myself, i used to find men repulsing and now i don't and maybe in the future i will decide to be with a guy! bi or lesbian who needs to know! breakups suck but i need to get my life back on track..
If you have an interest or desire to experience a sexual experience with another man whether it be oral, anal, or even both I'd recommend you pursue that sexual desire. A male friend of mine who was gay (I never cared, it was his sexual preference) told me "Don't knock it until you try it". It was only a couple years later that I pursued my already acquired attraction to guys cocks (being I always wanted to suck my own but was physically unable to do so) that I physically placed myself, willingly with another guy to experience what it's like to suck another guys cock and to be sucked by another guy. It was a bit awkward the first time and I was very nervous and shy. But afterwards, I wasn't totally convinced it was something I wanted to continue doing or not to experience ever again so I returned to experience it again to find out the second time I really enjoyed it and found nothing wrong with having sexual encounters with both men and women as I found both to be enjoyable sexually, internally, and emotionally. I've never really held any emotional feelings towards other men outside of the emotional sexual desire I had for his cock. A woman can capture my emotional feelings for love of her entire being as where a man can only capture my sexual desire for his cock.
