I'm getting a spanking

Hello everyone, I've looking for a forum where I could share my spanking experiences. and hear yours. Let me introduce myself. I'm a woman, drawn to spanking since late teens but only found courage to ask for one in my thirties. I've only been spanked by two people so far. For me spanking is a huge turn on, so it happens before (and also during) sex. I've never been spanked for punishment, but when I'm getting a spanking we pretend it is. I like playing submissive in sex - so I want my man to be strict and dominant. I'm not so much into pain, so my partner doesn't spank me so hard to leave marks and bruises - what I like is long spanking with various implements, so my bottom gets red and hot... I'm not interested in men getting spanked, obviously it's a turn off to me. I'm always spanked on the bare, bent over the bed, table or couch, on all fours, over his knee or sometimes in a diaper position. Sometimes he handcuffs me. I like belt and hand spanking the most, and the ritual of lowering my panties and assuming the position. I also enjoy anal sex and my partner often uses butt plugs combined with spanking. I'd like to hear from men who spank their partners or women in general.

 

I forgot to write that my spanking / sex partner is not my romantic partner, but he's been spanking me for the last 4 years. And I'm getting a spanking this evening. So excited!

 

Wonderful! Thank you!! and looking to hear about your HF adventure…WELCOME!!;-)

 

Hi! Seems these forums are not as visited as one would hoped for... I have one spanking to report from the last week - and I'm looking forward to one I'll be receiving on Monday. So about the last week. My spanking partner came to my place, as usual. We kissed and cuddled on the couche, and then he took me to the bedroom, undressed me. Ordered me to get on my knees and pleasure him orally, which I did. Then he told me to bend over the edge of a bed (It's 70 cm tall bed), with some pillows underneath my hips. and then he pulled down my panties. First he gave me 50 strokes with a belf - then 50 more. Then he took a leather paddle, his favourite. I think he gave me 50 with it - and then a riding crop, also 50. Between the implements, he'd slowly enter me from behind. Then he sat on the edge of the bed and took me over his lap and hand spanked me, I think he slapped me like 100 times. Finally, he told me to lie on my back and spread my legs - and we had sex. But even dring sex he decided to stop, and take me over his lap once more and gave me one more spankig. My behind was red and really hot... then we continued to have sex... When it was all over, my bottom was still sore and red, and he told me to lie on my tummy so he can massage it with protective oil.
I have strong desire to be spanked before and during sex - but when he actually starts spanking me, it hurts and I'm quite vocal about it, trying to avoid the blows and begging him to stop.... and when he stops my brain is telling me I need more. I'm not satisfied if my bottom is not red, hot and burning, but it's so hard to endure. I've been alwasys wanting the spanking to last longer, but not be so hard - but he always spanks me a little bit too hard for my taste.
Still, it makes me wet, obedient and ulitimatelly satisfied.

 

Here are some things I like when getting a spanking. I like to receive orders and to be talked in a calm, strict manner. I like to be told I'm getting a spanking. I like to be told to lower my panties and assume the position. I like to be bent over in a way that my bottom sticks really high out - and that I know my spanker could also see my genitals and my anus, so I'm embarrassed. I expect spanking to hurt, and I enjoy a certain level of pain - but not too much - I don't want bruises or cuts. I enjoy the submission, the feeling of losing control and the shame. i like to be completely dominated. I'd be very dissapointed if my spanking was too gentle and my botom wasn't red, sore and warm after the spanking. Spanking arouses me, so sex is to follow - I'd be dissappointed if there'd be no sex after spanking.
I'm specially humiliated but also arroused by anal play, including butt plugs, taking rectal temperature, figging, anal sex and finger stimulation.

 

Most often I'm completely naked for spanking - as sex follows - but he also like to keep my panties around my knees while spanking me...

 

Welcome to HF, sounds like your going to have a great night!

 

I like the look of dropped panties as she's taking her spanking but one of my friends likes to have her legs spread so I can see more of her pussy and she also loves (or hates) her inner thighs slapped and a little pussy spanking. Spanking her pussy gets that wetness right out of her.

 

You sound like a fun spankee. I spank my wife pretty much the exact same way. We like to role play dif scenarios to keep it interesting. I like to buy her panties and outfits and lay them out on the bed so she can come in and be surprised and know what the night is gonna lead to. Also set the bed up with diy restraints we use every now and then. Lots of toys. Put on some music and take my time spanking her bottom red. Always ends with sex. Like to put her butt plug tail in and tug on it as I spank her. All kinds of fun

 

you need to be put over my knee you bad girl.

 

I'd love to...

 

My last spanking, two days ago. Robert (my spanker & lover) came to my place... I waited for him in the living room. He sent me to the bedrom and followed after Told me to undress to my panties, and then to lower the panties below my knees. This is so embarrassing. Then he told to to touch my breasts while looking at him and then to go down on my knees and pleasure him. Next I was ordered to kneel on the edge of the bed (70 cm tall), my chest and head down and my bottom up. I know that this is the postiton where my genitals are exposed, but he could even see my anus. I heard him taking his belt out of his trousers - and without saying a word he started to spank me, really fast. I was trying to avoid he belt at times by moving my bottom to the side, but without much success. When I started to feel my bottom getting red and very hot, he stopped. He split my butt cheeks and put some lubricant on my anus - and then he inserted rectal thermometer, slowly. I was so ashamed, and a least I didn't hav to look at him. After leaving it inside of me and playing with it, he took it out, bt then he pt a latex glove on his hand and told me he's going to "examine" me, which was even worse then taking my temperature. He inserted one finger, then two - and it seemed like forever. Finally he entered me from behind, and commented on how wet I was already. He was only inside of me for a minute, then said I need to be spanked more. He took his belt again, then a whip... and finally he sat down on the bed and took me over his lap and gave me the most painful, long hand spanking. I cried and pleaded him to stop - not only did it hurt, but I literally felt my bottom becoming more and more red and i was burning. I started kicking and screaming, but he blocked my legs and pressed my arms behind my back. When he was done he told me to lie on my back and spread my legs - he put his hand between my legs to check how wet I was, then simply lied on top of me and started f... me. We both came quite quickly. He led me to the mirror to show me my sore, red bottom. Usually when we're finished, we talk a bit, have a drink before he leaves. Bt this time he did something else. About half an hour later, before he had to go, he said - you were kicking and screaming today, so now you'll receive one more. OMG! I wasn7t expecting that - nor was I in the mood, but he was not joking at all We were in the living room, I had only my bathrobe on. He told me to take it of and bend over the couch. He gave me 50 with a belt, 50 with a whip and 50 with his hand - it was overwhelming and I was crying.... Finally he took me over his lap and put a lotion on my bottom - it hurt when he was massaging me, but at least it was cold. He hugged me before he left and told me - I guess you'll have to sleep on your tummy toninght. This was the strongest spanking I received so far - and my bottom was tender and red even next morning. I can't stop thinking about this.

 

I would make you strip naked, then put you over my knee, then slap you, leaving a nice hand print on your butt, then rub it better. Then slide my hand between your legs to see if you’re getting wet to my satisfaction. Then make you wait a little and slap you again, can’t just give repetitive slaps I have to make you wait, and make you want it more the anticipation is better than the slap, especially if your a really bad girl and you want it. Then once you cheeks are nice and red we would have to take your temperature, maybe with a few thermometers to make sure, then while that’s happening I would rub you to see if your wet to my satisfaction. Then if you are I would make you lay face down and take you from behind, because then I can smack your ass while I F you, because that’s what you deserve, because your a bad girl. I would also leave the thermometers in your ass while I do it, because bad girls need to be full.

 

Wow. This is really a true spanking session. I have to admit reading it made me very hot

 

Hello I am a newbie also. For us my wife and I we are exact opposite of you. My wife spanks me about once every 10 days or so. Like you we role play with her being the Dom. Also like you my wife doesn’t spank me as hard as I would like because she doesn’t want to hurt me. For sure my ass is red when she is finished. I usually get 150 swats (she makes me count them out loud) with a wooden paddle. Lately I have been thinking about asking her to use the belt on me. If you don’t mind me asking which is worst the wood paddle or the belt? I would be happy to chat anytime with you about our spankings.

 

I don't think I'll stop thinking about it either. Your username is well-earned.

 

Thank you so much! I actually got spanked today and the result is my profile photo.)

 

Got spanked today. Probably the hardest spanking ever - the switch over the panties, paddle and belt on the bare and then a hand spanking otk.

 

I am so wet reading this! I a clinching my private area trying to keep it in, and I am at my desk at work no less!

 

This sounds so tempting. I do like a fast series of strokes better though.