I'm Gettin Snipped!!!!

not a good idea. your gonna piss off all the chicks you want, and youre gonna change your mind once you hit about 30.

 

jizz in a jar and throw it in the freezer for safe keeping.

 

If you are not here to make life... what are you here for?

 

To experience all the beauty life is made of. You don't have to make life to capture the essence of it.

 

now im not rying to be mean in any way now

but I really think that is one of the most selfish comments I have ever heard
and any girl is gonna think the same sorry

peace and make the right choice

 

To help others, maybe adopt some kids who are already here and have a shitty life and make their lives better...the list goes on and on.

Maybe...it is your opinion and it may be true, but if he feels that way about kids and it is selfish, at least he recognizes hie feelings and is honest with himself and doesn't bring kids into the world that he doesn't really want. There are a crap load of VERY selfish people that have decided to bring kids into this world and the kids are the ones that suffer for their selfishness. And there are women in the world who do not wnat kids...just make sure that is who you spend your time with...it is a make or break issue in a relationship. If I felt I did not have enough time or energy to totally DEVOTE myself to my kids' well being, I think it would be selfish to have kids.

 

You don't have the maturity level at 20 to make that decision though. You grow with each year that passes.

 

do what you gotta do... but please put some aside, or consider adoption should you ever meet 'the right one'. You have a good chance of being the forever bachelor otherwise (even Hef had kids...)

 

I had a boyfriend that had a child "by accident" at a young age. He never wanted kids and that little "oops" pushed him over the edge and he had a vasectomy, at 23. He was quite happy about it. As was I.

I've known several people who should have never been parents. It is not for everyone.

If you have always known that you don't want kids... If you find children annoying... Then being a parent is probably not for you. And besides, why add to the overpopulation of the planet?

Cheers to you.

 

Not only that... But how many times have you met a guy who knocked a girl up, who supposedly was on the pill, or used some other failed form of birth control? Now, she has a baby (single mom), is taking half of his paycheck and he is miserable and never wanted it to begin with? I've met too many guys in that situation. And the poor kids have a dad that is disinterested in them. And society says "What a horrible father he is." Well, he didn't want the baby to begin with...

No, it is better that if he is sure he doesn't want them, get fixed. If you really want kids later, you can always adopt...

 

He has every right ot make this choice.
If I had the money then, I would have gotten a vas back when i was his age.
Hell, if I had the money i'd do it now... my wife doesn't want a child either.

 

Ok, I'm hell bent on getting this done...I only have just over 2 weeks of wait now...but reading all the posts above about the pain/diseases,etc that you can get I'm not really sure that I want to go through with this now. I have pain in my guy parts alredy but it isnt so severe that I could cry about it. This is seriously worrying me a lot. When I go back to the doctor I'll ask him about everything that can happen in terms of side effects/etc. Thanks to all for the replies. (If I knew how to give rep I would)

 

can't getting a vassectomy lead to prostrate problems?

 

Yes, it can. Thats why I'm re-evalutaing my decision *disease risks*

 

yeah, I would think long and hard. If I were you I wouldn't get it done man, seems like it might be fun now, but you never know later on in life.

 

all of my friends are guys and they have been my friends, my family for 10 years and they all felt the way that you do and now they are all 27 ish and boy do they feel different some are single, some are dating, some are engaged, and some are married when they swore that they never would and all the ones that are love definetly want the option to make babies with their women you never know what you will meet and discover and want in the future you are still sooo young i know it doesn't seem like it but a lot will happen to your brain and your body in the next 5 years i promise please rethink this drastic measure