I'm fucking my husband's best friend

No ones acting like it doesnt happen... But even emotionally unattached...hes still a human being with feelings who if ever found out would be pissed or upset. Yes your a human being to and your needs, need to be satisfied.... But sometimes.... people need to stop being selfish... and take how others feel in to consideration. But even if I say all this or what anyone else says doesnt matter....It comes down to you.... So if you dont feel bad well...what ever...maybe your a sociopath and have no emotion and only hurting people is what thrills you... Or maybe its the complete opposite... maybe you have to much emotion..I dunno i dont know you.

The point is ... people like you and this "best" friend... need to wake up and realize what your actually doing to another human being... Hurt helps know one... neither of you would like it... Move on form your husband..... let him at least have truth.

 

I think its funny that the wild stuff you are doing woth the other guy is swallowing his cum, I mean, thats normal stuff...what kind of boring wholesome sex life do you an your husband have?

Anyway, I was once married, my wife would leave for months at a time, once another woman rocked my world, i realized the marriage had to end, so I immediately told her

BUT

the other woman was not her best friend, thats why you are a bitch....this situation could end in murder....if its even a true story to begin with.

 

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too bad you married someone who sucks at sex

still don't get why you don't divorce him, but I'm sure you know what necessary support you use him for.

Heres hoping someone does not die from this situation

maybe tonight you and your lover can "French Kiss"

Maybe he could stick his hand down your pants

 

Alright so hes no angle ...but do 2 wrongs make a right. Sociably acceptable...? I think it has to do with moral judgment...

 

"not socially acceptable"
go ask your husband, see if that's what he feels is wrong with it
stop making excuses
if you don't feel the least bit of guilt, you are heartless
if you do, either tell your husband, or get a fucking vibrator

 

Why would you wait 9 years to have an orgasm? Ever hear of masturbation? Or are you too dumb to even figure out how to pleasure yourself? And if you can't pleasure yourself, how do you expect other people to?


I'm not going to sit here and chastise you, because that would be giving you the attention that you obviously craved by coming on here acting like you're all "badass" in the first place.

Oh, and I do recall a study showing that 1 out of 25 Americans is a sociopath. Hmmm...

 

only thing I can say is if your husband finds out I hope he does, he will find out eventually thats the whole point of karma, that or hell hurt you worse than you could ever hurt him in your life. Nothing goods gonna come from it and you have no idea how big of a knife your sticking in your husbands back, if he aint no angel and your fed up with him and a straight forward talk about it with him, and if hes no good practice or get him some viagra or some shit.

not everything can be forgivable when they happen, your sacrificing your husbands respect and trust for you. (if he does respect you)

 

So youve admitted youve left him emotionally and youve admitted the sex is crap and the loves gone...


So WHY wont you leave him?

 

If my parents were doing that, then shame on them, too.

If people aren't getting married and having kids and living happily ever after, then they should be. Life is what we make of it. It isn't inevitable that people screw around on each other and get divorced.

 

what if he knows, and doesnt mind?

If chick had to go nine years without cumming during sex, getting some on the side might be a blessing for everyone involved! She says she wouldnt want to leave him, its just some sex. The guy probly feels bad about leaving his wife wanting, or at least he should. He may just not being fessing up to knowing... after nine years hes gotta notice a difference in his wifes attitude! lol

 

Thats why respectable couples work together and learn how to please eachother. Plus, anyway, to me (over idealistic as i am) i think what is important is the love between two people. If you love eachother you put your sexual "needs"(which are really wants) aside rather than sleep with your "loved" ones best friend

 

Why did you post it in the first place? Attention-seeking? You're husband and your boyfriend not give you enough? You've obviously got some issues.

 

What a strange society we are - so quick in condemning and making presumptions, and at the same time worshipping the stereotype of the badass super whore (well I just saw some of your signatures).

Be true to your own self.

And with this, I'm not saying it's great and wonderful what thinkingbaseball is doing - what the heck - nor am I saying it's bad - am not here to judge. She just made a true confession, out of whatever reason. Who are we to tell ?

I was just wondering about some of the reactions here.

Maybe it is all just as much about love, as you are - can you tell ?

 

Moving cloud my statement was simple. I do not agree with what shes doing and furthermore do not understand it

Situation and fact-If she loved her husband she wouldnt sleep with another man
-This shows there is no real love in her current relationship
-She is however unwilling to leave this relationship and would rather go on "cheating"-playing games
-She is therefore wrong, and stupid, and has it coming to her


Fin

P.s-Shes posted this out to the world. We have a right to give her our feedback, our opinions, negative towards her and her actions as they may be

 

You're wondering about the reactions?

I think the reactions are pretty par for the course. Though varying in their levels of "condemption", one thing is probably for certain, anyone that has blasted "thinkingbaseballs" has probably had someone do to them, what she's so "obla-dee-obla-da" doing to her husband. Hearing someone "confess" (if that's what you call posting on a message board to strangers) and actually happily disregard the feelings of her husband, is obviously going to stir up some shit with people - can you tell?

Be true to your own self?

That's a copout for people who can't be true to themselves and the rest of the world at the same time. No one is saying she should stay with her husband. No one is saying she can't have sex with as many men as she wants to, but atleast have the guts to be upfront about your decisions -- and that doesn't been flaunting on a message board.

 

!!!!!!

 

Hm.. A little more background could have been useful, even if it ultimately doesn't alter how we feel about her..

I don't like anybody's first post/thread to be one like this.. Not only is she seeking attention that will determine her life on here badly.. But she is begging for insults before we even, or will ever, get to know her...

She's hardly talking about anything unusal, so why are we giving her so much time?

 

All I can say is when my buddy found out his wife did it with another man he threw her down and began chokin her in anger, if it werent for his friend to pull him off and talk sense into him shed probably be dead, I hope this doesnt end that way, last thing we need is another slutt with her throat slashed.

 

thinkingbaseball WTF is wrong with you why would you post this shit as your first post. You are actually proud of the fact you are Fing around on you dh. You say you won't leave him for what you are bragging about doing yourself , but if it were him doing it you would divorce him! little double standard don't you think! You have done nothing but dug a hole for you self right of the bat on this forum. You will always be viewed as the slut sleeping with her husband's best friend on here now way to go.