I'm bi

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by crystalstarr, Jul 13, 2005.

  1. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    Crystal, you go girl!!

    Mushie, I like being a guy, too. Theater Boy is a guy too and he likes guys and that makes it all even better.
     
  2. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    i'm happy the theater guy worked out for you!:)
     
  3. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    Mushie,

    I'm just saying that he likes guys. I'm going to the theater today and let's just say that seeing a movie isn't my only objective. Theater Boy is going to get invited to lunch.
     
  4. psyche

    psyche fun for the whole family

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    yay for bi-ness, glad you're comfortable enough to say it crystal :)
     
  5. *Cosmic*Cloud*

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    yeh people are always tellin me that im just a les in denial. i love girlz but i just cant give up my boyz. so basically i love evryone. its weird cause my family says the exact opposite that im straight in denial.
    :confused:
     
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  6. Court_lew_0216

    Court_lew_0216 True Aquarius

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    love it when more people join the bunches..................... my friends always knew too. . it was wierd
     
  7. Jesse49

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    I identify as being a Bi-male. I’m not attracted to men in any romantic way, I’m just attracted to their cocks. I’m married and love my wife but have sucked a number cocks in my past.
     
  8. LowHangers

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    I can't argue with this statement. My wife knows if she goes before me I will not pursue another woman, I'll stick with my "man-sex". All I will say is I've been enjoying sex with both men and women for quite a long time. I do have more sex with my man than I do with my wife or his mainly because he and I do enjoy each other sexually but also because our wives sex drive is far lower then ours. Our wives don't mind, they actually prefer it this way because they are not always wanting to suck us off so we suck each other off to fill in the void and all four of us are happy.
     
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  9. topper

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    I agree, about everything you mentioned. I would love to fuck some hottie, but it would probably kill me. I'll admit my Bi adventures are extremely satisfying, however they are not life threatening. Its a good selling point for trying bi in our older years/ We have fooled around in front of our wives, basicly for their entertainment and our satisfaction.
     
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  10. slayer3737

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    For the first 21 years of sucking more than 200 cocks, I considered myself bi-confused. That's because my powerful gay fantasies and enjoyment of gay porn at home, including everything anal, always pushed me out to find the real thing, but almost every time I got naked with another guy in some anonymous sex venue, I lost all my gay desires, though I still engaged in oral sex with him, feigning great enthusiasm. But I had no desire for anything anal with him. But back at home all my gay desires came rushing back until they drove me out again, only for a repeat absence of desire with a real guy. But out of all those guys and encounters, there were 6 times where I kept my attraction and desire for the guy naked with me, and I super enjoyed sucking his cock and getting mine sucked by him. So that kept the hope alive, and I kept chasing that thrill and enjoyment. But 6 out of more than 200 is not much, so I identified as bi-confused.

    Then, at 51 in 2013, I fell in lust with a guy's ass in a bathhouse and attacked his ass with a hunger like I've never experienced, tonguefucking his hole for more than an hour before finally inserting my cock inside another man. That touched something deep inside me and brought it much closer to the surface: I believe I had been repressing the gay part of me those 21 years, but that anal intimacy with another man allowed me to really see it, accept it, and in fact love it. I finally came out to myself as bisexual, and I really loved and was proud of that. That moved me so much that I stopped all anonymous sex and just started getting together with other guys in each other's homes; and I've loved virtually every encounter, with lots of anal too. I feel like so much more myself when I'm naked with another guy now, free to feel strong desire for another man, and loving it.

    But I don't believe I'm totally there yet, with some repression still happening. I say that because even though I have lots of fantasies about falling in love with another guy, and even having a boyfriend or even a husband, I have not yet ever felt any romantic feelings for another guy. And like so many guys here, I'm also not attracted to clothed guys out on the street and in everyday life. But there have started a few exceptions now with that as well, where I am sometimes looking at a guy's package or ass in his pants, and imagining taking them off and making love to him. I feel myself developing desire for at least his cock and ass with his clothes on.

    And since ending a very difficult, rocky three-year relationship with a woman just before the pandemic hit, I feel much more in touch with the gay part of me and wanting to really explore that in a much bigger way, though the pandemic has really curtailed that in a big way (I've only gotten together with one guy, twice, a year ago September). I'm still attracted to women, but right now all I want is to have sex with guys, and especially to find a FWB to get together with regularly. Who knows, maybe I will someday develop romantic feelings for another guy. Then I can fully say that I am fully bisexual. But even if that doesn't come, just regular, ongoing, frequent sex with a FWB to really live the gay part of my bisexuality, as it is currently, would be wonderful.
     
  11. Poplo.

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    I'm bi............
     
  12. FireWolf78

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    I'm Bi & not ashamed of myself for it. I'm proud to be apart of the community that stands up for each other in times of our lives.
     
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  13. maturemale3346

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    I am sexually attracted to men and women, so I'm bisexual and comfortable being that way
     
  14. soulpoker

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    I love and embrace being bi! But I can't wait for my first night with a guy.
     
  15. Oral_Jim

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    People tell me I'm wrong and if I suck cock then I'm bi, but I don't think I'm bi I just have one hell of a cock fetish. I love looking at them, playing with them, and sucking on them until I have a mouth full of that wonderful semen. A man's ass does nothing for me.
     
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  16. EZGoing

    EZGoing Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I agree.
    It sounds like Lowhangers has the ideal arrangement … a loving wife who approves of him having a sex buddy. Wow.
    My wife excites and satisfies me, but not often enough.
    Unfortunately, I may be waiting quite awhile for her consent/approval to find my man.
     
  17. Poplo.

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    Why should you I'm not........................my wife supports me also.
     
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  18. Poplo.

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    I'm hit on here on this site several times and have met them since they live close by.............
     
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  19. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Most (not necessarily all) gay guys seem to think that... Almost as if they're trying to "convert" you.
    I've had it happen to me more than once, and trust me, it DOESN'T work that way.
     

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