I'm a slut...a dirty slut....

yay! I'm glad things will be taken care of and you are clear minded about where your friendship lies and everything.

Has he woken up yet? have you talked?

 

An interesting read. The thing is this type of thing happens. It's just life. You can moralise and debate as much as you want but there is nothing wrong in what happened. It happens all the time. Both parties consented. They had sex. Thats fine.
End of story.

 

yeah, but what about the innocent person that was hurt.. I have been cheated on and it doesnt feel great, and it makes your trust in people all messed up...so its not life, it messes with PEOPLES lives..

 

well then ;P I say you let him tell her about it, if he doesnt its his problem your not the one with a gf good luck. Id never cheat on you shroom <3

 

Quote by Holly Da Ho: "Should I feel bad?"



Admittedly, you make me fucking ill!

 

haha aww thanks

 

Fuck that! Shroom was born to be cheated on and, in turn, treated like the ho she is.

 

double post

 

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fuck you bogs Im sorry that your mom didnt breast feed you as a child and now you are lashing out..
Now bend over and spread those cheeks..

 

whats wrong shroomie don't you like 14 year olds advise....

 

haha not particularly

 

Holly,
It sounds to me like he is the one who initiated that kind of serious contact, so HE is the one who should feel bad. He is the one with a girlfriend that he cheated on. You went along with it, yeah, but you didn't go seeking it. It's understandable for you to give in when you have feelings like you say you have for him, and he went and capitalized on it, taking advantage of it. I wonder, is he maybe not getting sex from his girlfriend? Are they having a fight/separation? Or is he just the typical loutish male trying to get all he can and then some?

You sound like you already realize your mistake, and are hopefully learning from it.

It's up to HIM to decide how he's going to deal with the ramifications with his girlfriend. He owes her the TRUTH -- especially since he's bringing back a dick that had unprotected sex (not implying that you have anything). Speaking of which, you should confront him and demand that BOTH of you get tested in a few months to make sure that you don't have anything to give/get. And of course you need to check to see if you got pregnant.

Good luck. You seem like a decent girl. Hope this works out okay for you.

-Jeffrey

 

well, as an update, I did talk to him. I had assumed that with all of the bad things he's said about his girlfriend (he's never said anything good about her) that he was going to break up with her. He even told me he would.

But...when we talked yesterday, he said he wasn't going to break up with her until he got some more action from her. That statement, it didn't even sound like something Sam would say. I was appalled. I actually went to throw up, it stressed me so much. And he was on the phone with her, trying to touch me....he even went as far as push me against the wall and try to kiss me. I told him I wasn't going to be a whore, pushed him off, and went into the other room.

If I had known that Sam had changed, was so...fucking asshole, I wouldn't have done anything. So now, I'm going to my friend Kim's house until I leave on sunday.

Holly

 

thanks why when you are horny, its always safer just to masturbate..

 

yea...I know

But all will be ok...at least for me...I think

Holly

 

Nonetheless, you are still making me ill.