If your wife asked you suck a cock, would you?

Sounds like your wife his open minded and is either easy going with sex being sex but maybe from an artistic or creative point of view was happy to capture the moments and enjoy the experience.

Mine won't peg me. I think if I push the issue it's just going to be weird and neither of us could relax or get into the moment. Don't get me wrong I want to but that stuff just doesn't turn her on although she loves fucking. I guess more so she likes to be fucked , licked, fingered whatever but doesn't see that I as a male should enjoy ass play or being fucked by my wife.

 

Women are funny about reversing the roles and being the one to do the fucking. My wife, who knows that I'm bi, had asked me, "If I wanted to buy a strap-on and fuck you, would you object?" and my answer was, "No, I wouldn't; if you wanna fuck me, bring it!" And it has never come up again. Oh, she's sneaked a butt plug into me while I was either eating or fucking her but after doing it a few times and see that I wasn't objecting to it, she stopped doing it.

What I learned (and way before i met this wife) is that women are of a mind that they're the ones who get fucked and, as such, men shouldn't be fucking each other so a husband asking his wife to get a nice, big-dicked, strap-on so she can peg him is going to get some very strange looks at the least, told there's no way in hell that she's going to do that, or worse, start asking him questions about being gay and has he ever had sex with a guy and let a guy fuck him?

My first wife pegged me one night and it was almost a disaster because... she couldn't figure out how to fuck me. It upset her but I got her calm and had asked her, "Did you think you'd be able to fuck me because I fuck you? Trust me, baby - all of us guys had to learn how to fuck and the motions are just as instinctive as they are something we have to learn. I'm not upset and you shouldn't be but I'll help you..." I hate the missionary position because my hips never "worked right" but for her, I endured the discomfort; she slid the attached 9" dildo into me and I used my hands on her hips and butt and... taught her how to fuck. She wore me out that first time; wore me out a second time and... never wanted to do it again because she said it didn't feel right to be the one doing the fucking.

That most women can't, won't and don't see that a man should enjoy ass play or being fucked by her isn't surprising. I know a couple of wives who agreed to peg their husband... to keep him from going out to be fucked by guys. Whether they really liked fucking the husband is unknown but, again, for a lot of women that I do know? The idea of them fucking a guy ain't gonna fly...

 

Maybe it's not she wore you out but the 9" Dong wore you out.

If you enjoyed a 9" Strap -on in your ass maybe your then wife did think you were gay.

No offence but fuck I reckon 9" would make anyone take notice unless they are a seasoned pro..
I reckon there is nothing wrong with ass play Betsey a hetero couple and girls should see that.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
If a wife does role reversal and fucks her husband then let's get it on. Use his ass like he would hers. Just stick it to him and fuck your husband and keep it to yourself. Enjoy life and fuck each other.

 

Um, no, my first wife never thought that I was gay since she knew I was bi; she knew that I was a cocksucker and that I had no problems being fucked. Ah, but she had asked, "Hey, what if I wanted to use this on you?" and I said, "Okay - this should be interesting!" Seasoned pro? You bet your ass I was (and still a pro)! And, as I wrote, it was interesting but the whole point, which I think you missed or tried to gloss over, was that neither of my wives felt that after either giving it a try or really thinking about it, men might fuck each other but it's "not a woman's place" to fuck a man like that. Other women disagree and that's fine and guys who have a lady who'll peg them are the lucky ones but those women are more the exception that the rule - and maybe there are a growing number of men who want this "rule" to change so that women won't be so weird about strapping one on and giving her guy da bizness...

 

She would not have to ask me twice. I would look for a cock to suck the same day. I would love to swallow his cum while she watches.

 

Not gonna lie, I wish I had a dick in my mouth right now.

 

My wife is an old fag hag since the 70s. While I knew she found it very exciting to see 2 men interacting sexually, it wasn't until our close friend found himself a lonely, old,gay introvert. He and my wife talked like girlfriends and confided with each other. Until late in life, I never had a need or desire for anything but fucking women.
Guys were never on my radar. When things got to a point where it was a logical choice to go in this direction, I tested the waters. It was pretty thrilling to do the first time, even more so when my wife watched the second time. The fact that she was so excited made it a more satisfying experience. In subsequent bi encounters I always tried to make it exciting for her, as well . She was hypnotized by it.

 

Nice

 

My wife would never ask, but if she did I would because it’s been a fantasy of mine.

 

Hopefully she would hold my head

 

If my wife wanted to see me sucking a cock she would have to let me see her eating pussy. She could watch me getting sucked all she wanted, but the only way that she would see me suck would be if I could see her munching on a nice muff!!!

 

Most definitely. I had a strong desire to suck a cock with my ex-wife or at least have her watch while I sucked one.

 

Yes please

 

100% yes

 

YES! In fact nlmy xw hated to suck me and often told me I should have to suck a cock, make a guy cum in my mouth and swallow. I never told her I'd sucked cock, but other things she said she often set up, so I hoped she'd set it up so I could suck her brother or the husband of one of her friends...but sadly never happened. But if next gf/wife asks...YES! I want to sick cock for her regularly!

 

One of the greatest experiences of my sexual life was sucking a cock WITH my wife. We were in a 69ish position and we swapped his cock back and forth and he sucked my cock while he fingered her pussy. Possibly one of my favorite experiences. We ALL came hard and several times that evening.

 

My wife started playing with my ass once while she was giving me a blow job. Her finger felt good so we progressed to using a dildo. It felt amazing. She said a real dick would feel a lot better and I should try it. I did and she was right. We talked about it and she asked if I had sucked him. When I said I hadn't she asked why not. I was so concentrating on getting fucked that I never thought about it.

Next time I got together with him I did suck him until he came and I swallowed. She likes to hear about us having sex but doesn't want to be present. I did make videos of my friend and I having sex with him cumming in my mouth and ass. She watched those and said it looked like I was really enjoying it. I was.

 

Yes, but these days I doubt she'd ask, she used to say that she would love watching a guy suck me

 

1) If it was something that would turn her on
2) if she didn’t use it to demean me
3) if it was important to her
4) if she would eat pussy while I watch

if those 4 are met, it’s a bit YES

 

She most likely wouldn't but if she did, i most definately would. Actually it'll probably happen regardless.