If your spouse knows, Are they happy about your Bi Side?

One member mentioned how his wife was disgusted about it. Others are happy to add another to the mix . Does your spouse know? Do they approve or disapprove?

 

My first wife...NO WAY...My present wife, yes she knows, yes she approves and loves it, and yes she participates with he and I most of the time. He and I get a nice cock to suck, he and I get sucked by two mouths, and she gets her mouth and pussy fucked simultaneously. We have very pleasurable times with him each month.

 

My wife and I aren't sexually active and I've enjoyed myself with others (men and women). My wife knows I've been out and about but not with who. She probably won't care who Im with as long as I don't bring any drama home.

 

When I came out as Bi to my wife four years ago she made it all about her. I was having so much suicidal ideation over it I started counseling just before telling her. I was hoping for compassion but got only disdain. I also went through a life-threatening illness and surgery and she was still a bitch. The main reason we stay together is economic but I do continue to hope for more from her. Acceptance of my sexuality has come in drips and drabs. Ironically she’s always been very LGBT friendly, but she’s also very insecure in her intimate relationships having been burned by the guy she was with before me. She’s never healed from it. I needed compassion but didn’t get it, but all that doesn’t make me any less Bi, and I’m almost as lonely as I ever was.

 

I'm sorry to hear that your wife is not accepting to your sexuality but in all honesty very few women would be. Perhaps it's time you and your wife part ways and move on with your lives so you can be who you truly are without the emotional strain of needing her acceptance. I'm simply saying: You are who you are and you do accept who you are so I'd suggest removing any negative drama that she seems to be pouring on you. Everyone deserves to be happy and from my past experience you'll never be fully happy with someone in your life that doesn't provide compassion and love. I hope that you can get the needed help from counseling as you must first heal yourself so you can love yourself.

 

My wife couldn't be happier. First, it takes a burden away from her. Second, she discovered that she really enjoys watching , when she has the opportunity. I felt a little off in the beginning , doing it in front of her, but her enthusiasm made it very comfortable to do in front of her.

 

My situation is the same. She wanted to watch (after I told her early in our relationship) and found it very exciting to watch two guys sucking each others cocks. We've evolved far past that now as she loves seeing me take it up the ass too.

 

Yes, my wife really gets excited when she watches me suck a dick

 

There been a number of times that Tom was here helping with some projects around the house when my wife will bring us refreshments so we can take a break. Last night was one of those times and my wife stated that she'd really enjoy watching us suck each other off. We've done so many times for her and his wife so after we finished our iced tea I dropped to my knees and crawled between his legs and started sucking his cock. Within 10 minutes we were completely naked in the back yard in a serious 69 suck session. The entire time my wife is caressing our ass cheeks, fondling our balls, and finger fucking us until we shot our loads in each others mouths. She really, really enjoys watching us suck each other.

 

My wife knew of by curiosity and actually set up a threesome so that I explore and experience bi sex. She said watching me suck a cock was the hottest thing she's ever seen.

 

My wife would instigate things by inviting him by and actually asking us when we were going to give her a show. She knew that we would be giving each other bjs from the git go, but she would be impatient and want to see the party started. She never went as far as touching us while we sucked each other cocks

 

Ask her to, it's great having a woman involved to enhance the moment.

 

My wife knows about my sexual past........in HS I had an occasional, and a continuous suck buddies, the latter continuing into college. This was 35 years ago. She found it "interesting" enough to the point of watching gay porn together. She said she'd like to watch me suck cock. We took out a couple ads looking for a bi couple (she was curious) and met a hot bi couple for drinks. I could see myself having sex with both of them. My wife got cold feet, saying she didn't think she could handle seeing me having sex with the wife. That didn't stop my wife from having sex with her. Now the last 2 years our marriage has been sexless. Her hot gay hairdresser has told her that he thinks I'm hot, and wants to gay me up! He is hot, and I'd like to be with him. We did have a hot makeout session a while back, and it left me wanting more. Unfortunately he's become attached and unavailable.

 

My wife is only happy to allow me to indulge in my need/desire for cock if she's involved... Otherwise, she considers it "cheating" and gay. And she's RIGHT, 2 guys having sex (without a woman) is technically a gay act.
She actually began Cuckolding me a bout 5 years ago, due to my bisexual desires and a few of my "less manly" kinky interests. Apparently, she needed a "real man", and chose her exboyfriend (they were high school sweethearts). Although I haven't actually been with my wife and her boyfriend, my wife and I often discuss the things she does with him, usually while making love (it REALLY turns us BOTH on). Unknowingly to him, I've also been eating the creampies he leaves in my wife for the last couple years. We BOTH also fantasize about me sucking his cock and him cumming all over my face and down my throat. I'd also gladly bend over for him any day, if he and my wife would like me to.
My wife has had conversations with him about our fantasies, and I think we're REALLY close to having a bisexual MMF 3some... And possibly even a 3-way relationship where I'd be sexually submissive to BOTH of them.
My wife also fantasizes about fucking my best friend (we've been best friends for 30+ years), and to be quite honest, I've dreamed and fantasized about sucking his cock MANY times over the years, but never actually told him because I haven't wanted to potentially risk our friendship. It was actually him who proposed the idea of a 3some with us... But my wife and I decided it's only gonna happen if I can at least suck his cock during the 3some. I also really like the idea of guiding his cock into my wife as well... So there's also that possible option.

 

My wife know and we have both sucked the same guy..she finds it very hot