If You Are A Confident Man, Why Are You So?

maybe you should try disguising yourself as a foreigner.

 

masculine and feminine are acts people put on because they believe other people expect them to.

(they're usually right about other people expecting and demanding that they do. still bullshit though.)

 

Obviously women should speak to me WHEN I want it, HOW I want it, and WHERE I want it, so as to fulfill MY desires. We cannot have women being independent like this.

But don't be TOO submissive to me, or I might be disgusted at your whorish and beggarly nature.

Turkey has a population of 75 million. That means 37 million women. Probably ~10 million within the age group you are interested in. Maybe half of those are taken, so 5 million women let's say.

How many of these 5 million women have you spoken with and concluded they are conceited? I'm interested because you actually have issues even speaking to one of them, so I don't know where you're getting your information from.

A "sour face" does not mean she is conceited, it means you are probably awkward as fuck and they can smell your desperation and immaturity the moment you put your foot in your mouth when attempting a conversation. You probably look like you're "on a mission". They can probably detect not-so-subtle notes of irritation from you as soon as you realize on some level that this conversation is not working out, and that makes it fail even faster.

When you are comfortable and able to have a normal conversation with a girl that doesn't result in her having a sour face then you will be able to graduate to having a more romantic conversation and getting a girlfriend. Start at the basics. Practice chatting up guys first, about the weather, sports, whatever. Then practice those exact same conversations on women who do not intimidate you. Then practice on women who do intimidate you.

 

its less likely conceit then fully justified paranoia, in a country where being friendly is likely to get a woman killed, painfully and in public.

 

What do you mean?

 

That always results in her having a sour face. When I say hi, they make sour faces at once.

 

My look says I am turkish. Its impossible And also When I speak english, I speak it with Turkish accent

 

Bingo!!!
Nail on the head!!!

it's that fucked up Islamic patriarchal macho bullshit.




nuke 'em all and turn the place into a resort.

 

It's probably much harder to be confident as a woman than as a man. Don't be a banana, dude.

I started being confident when I started comparing myself to the person I was yesterday instead of the person beside me. All that matters is that you keep progressing and being better than who you were the day before.

 

Im very confident with my looks, but it's the inner man I'm looking at

and if I want to be confident, I have to be honest

I'm not all that confident

the good news is,

this is a skill that can be improved and it's a priority now to develop inner strength and grow my masculine core.

Over the next month I plan to ask out every good looking girl I see that blows my mind away...I'm the catch, if they don't like that is fine. A bus comes by every 15 minutes.

 

But the language is Turkish. You wouldn't understand the talking if there was a camera. There needs to be a subtitle

 

Why? Women are valuable, aren't they? It must be enough to be confident.

 

Probably because of things like unrealistic and extremely strict beauty standards, the fact that they are constantly judged based on their appearance, that they are continuously objectified, and so on and so forth...

Women aren't a currency and they aren't any more "valuable" than men. You seem like you've been hurt before and have a chip on your shoulder. That's not a reason to hate all women. Don't be that guy. Don't be a Nazi.

 

there was a time when women were less valued in western culture too. but there was also a time before that.
when they were wariors who fought along side each other, men and women alike. before there were christianity nor islam.

i won't say that all beliefs are a curse upon all genders, because there are many which are not, but these two are.

 

You're really not making this sound hard.

Turkish girls treat foreigners differently because foreigners treat turkish girls differently.

Sour faces beat the hell out of being treated like you're invisible. If they're bothering to make a sour face, a couple well-placed and well-chosen words should be all it takes

 

Girls that are not beautiful are conceited too in Turkey.

 

I don't like being in a muslim country either. It is bad.

 

Not sure why you are saying this. I'm pretty sure the person you're quoting there did not mean it like that (and you neither, and it also isn't funny so...?).

 

At this point in your life you're nothing better than your fellow countrymen.

 

are you saying the Islamic idea of male/female roles isn't a bunch of fucked up patriarchal macho bullshit?

and I'm willing to bet she did have the same idea/intention as I did quoting her.





but yeah, the resort thing is a joke, I mean seriously the place would be glowing for a few thousand years, so a resort is silly.

maybe a prison camp for the world's worst violent criminals then?