If I was like that....

I had a guy that said/did those EXACT same things with/to me. I dumped his butt about 4 years ago. But not before I got really sick and twisted it around on him, playing the same sick game he was playing. He got physically violent with me over it. But, I left and he is still crying and apologizing for it, begging me to come back to him.

 

If you don't like the tune change the station. Men/women, whomever, there are some who will use, abuse, and disrespect you more and more, as much as you let them. they won't stop till they find the boundary. The people who just accept being walked on, and stay when it isn't stopping, can't blame the loser partner totally. Of course, anything criminal is different. A loser who is beating someone up is not the victims fault, but if it is allowed to continue, then the victim must feel they deserve it.
I say, you can look at the menu even if you are on a diet. My fiance tried a few times to get me jealous, and though partially successful (to my surprise), the jealously lasted minutes.
If a partner is actively hitting on others, dump 'em. NEXT! You are worth more than that.

 

I would have to say that this guy isn't going to be around much longer, and maybe you should ditch him and go on to find something better.

 

uh, you're 18. my fiance' is 29 and he can still get it up, but we don't play games with each other. we tell each other how we feel straight up and honest, at all times. we treat each other with respect and like human beings. we are equals emotionally and intellectually. we have a fair relationship where love reigns supreme. our relationship is only ONE example of a couple who has a mutually loving and respectful relationship without trying to "work our game" or "get the upper hand." no, i've never tried to "get the upper hand" in a relationship, because i don't waste my time with immature asshole bastards like that! you need to either grow the fuck up, or just shut the fuck up while choking on your own bullshit!

 

After 3 months I would be bored of Carmen Electra, men get bored quick, that’s why there is so many females in this world.

 

its human nature to glance at people, some dont realize they are doing it..
Everyone looks at other people, doenst mean you want to hump them or anything like that...
Now i can see if they said, they look good or id fuck them and so forth..
This is my opinion so dont jump down my throat..

I think its no big deal..people look at other people all the time, and if you say you dont you are lying...

 

it just sucks that he's looking at these other people and comparing her to them. it's one thing to glance and check people out, it's another to make your lover feel bad because they don't look like those other people.

 

Looking is one thing... Gawking is another...

And asking me, a 35 y.o. 5'7" medium built caucasian woman, "can we make you look like that?" as you point to a 4'9" petite asian 22 y.o., is just plain rude and hurtful.

And if you don't know that you are being hurtful, then you darn sure do when I tell you that it hurts me. And if you still do it, after I've told you that it hurts my feelings, then you are just an asshole. My ex-boyfriend being one of those.

Yes, it is NORMAL AND HEALTHY for people to check out other people. But to turn your entire body as the person walks by IN FRONT OF YOUR CURRENT LOVER is rude and shows no self-control whatsoever. And making verbal comments that are detrimental to the one you are with at the time, is just ignorant.

Follow them with your eyes, not your head and certainly not your whole body. Show some respect for the person you are with.

 

did i saw gawking, no I didnt..I said glanced...geezlaweez, get off my ass...