If a man has erectile dysfunction

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by Applespark, Sep 16, 2013.

  1. Applespark

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    If a man has erectile dysfunction does that mean he isn't aroused or is he aroused but just can't get hard or keep hard enough to do anything about it?

    Like does he feel like he really wanted sex, knows it will be amazing but just nothing is happening? It's hard to understand from a woman's point of view.
     
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  3. GLENGLEN

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    Yes...:)



    Cheers Glen.
     
  4. Applespark

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    gosh you men really know how to confuse a woman can you elaborate lol
     
  5. GLENGLEN

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    Maybe...:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
  6. GLENGLEN

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    Most Certainly Not...:toetap05:



    Cheers Glen.
     
  7. odonII

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    What would you like me to elaborate on?
     
  8. Applespark

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    I have only been with men who have never had an issue with this so I am trying to understand it a bit better because I am with a new guy who might have these issues. He has trouble getting hard. Or he gets hard but loses it in a quick few minutes. I don't understand what that is like for him.
     
  9. GLENGLEN

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    Men Don't Have Erectile Dysfunction Issues, So If

    It Doesn't Rise To The Occasion It Is Always The Woman's Fault...[​IMG].

    Call Me When The War Is Over...:hide:



    Cheers Glen.
     
  10. Applespark

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    I don't think so buddy I'm a hot one ;)
     
  11. odonII

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    Explain his issues further...

    How 'hot' you are does not matter...
     
  12. Applespark

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    If you men can't tell me what it's like then maybe you have never experienced it. I will wait for someone to answer who simply knows what I am talking about. Seems a taboo subject no one really wants to admit to so a private message is ok as long as its serious otherwise forget it. It's a real question about what the man feels or does not feel sensation wise...when he isn't getting an erection or cant keep one.
     
  13. odonII

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    If your man can't get it up when he is with you you have to consider it might be you. You have not really explained the situation. It is a very complex issue. Saying: 'my man can't get it it up' does not really do the subject justice.
     
  14. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Maybe you are not communicating enough. More talking is the answer, talk a whole lot more, that will get him hard


    Or....you can just stick your finger up his bum ;)
     
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  16. Vanilla Gorilla

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    In your case make that three fingers
     
  17. Applespark

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  18. odonII

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    A more dedicated forum has not given you more insight over the past 7 years?
     
  19. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Apple, a more serious answer, the real answer

    They are never going to tell you, its at the core of them being male.

    You will never get the truth
     
  20. Mr.Writer

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    Applespark it is usually a physical issue, but often connected to a psychological root, such as stress, anxiety, or depression. It is commonly caused by drug use as well (hello alcohol and tobacco), including prescriptions. Every case is different, talk with him. There might be something on his mind that he doesn't feel like talking about just that moment when you're trying to have sex.
     

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