Hello. My wife and I have been married for a long time and since we have little kids, well, I'm sure you can figure out the rest. Sex life before kids was wild. Public places, threesomes, all that. Sex after kids, we're lucky if we can do anything on the bed once kids are asleep. Our anniversary is coming up and I'd like to surprise my wife with a sex adventure. We leave the kids with a sitter, go around to places, and just go nuts on each other. I'm looking for suggestions on what to do. So far, I've thought of having her wear vibrating panties that I can control by remote while we're out in public. That's about all I have so far. Any other ideas you have would be appreciated. Thanks!
Can you leave the kiddies with the sitter for a few days? If so get a hotel suite to play this game. Lock yourselves in the room and only order room service. Oh and bring along plenty of lube, maybe a few toys. Get a monopoly or sorry game board. Make up a stack of cards to draw and invent some rules like hitting 3 combined on the dice you have to back up 3 spaces. Use only one marker per player and don't turn in at the home spot. Just keep going round and round the board. Mark the board in random spaces to draw a card if you land on it. Draw the card and do what the card says to do sexually. Based on your experiences you can think of things to put on the cards. If not here's a few ideas: - Suck his cock / her clit 5 minutes but don't let them cum. - Lube up your finger and slide it into your partners ass. Hold it there for 1 minute. - Open the curtains and with a chair in front of the window have your partner masturbate themselves 3 minutes while you stand behind and watch. - Hold this card for room service. Answer the door nude, show the server where to place the tray, tip them, and then offer them a hug. (If the man has the card it can get interesting) - Have your partner slide a big dildo up your ass and pump it in and out for 2 minutes. - Suck your partners tits but do nothing else for one minute. You can use your imagination and come up with plenty more sex tasks on your own. You can break the game up in phases as the first 4 laps in the first evening, the second four beginning the next morning after breakfast and so on. Or put a time limit on each phase. Neither partner is allowed to orgasm the whole weekend or one can if they draw a card that says they can. Or the winner of each phase can select how to be brought to orgasm. We would play our game the no orgasm way until the last day, usually a Sunday morning before checking out. If you can only spend an evening out together check into a local swing club in your area. Go join in the fun there. Fuck each other in front of an audience. Exchange with another couple and fuck their partner side by side. I know you can come up with plenty of ideas instead of just the vibrating panties scenario (which, BTW isn't a bad idea). Talk with the spouse and see what she may be up for. She's got the same experiences you do. Maybe she's got some good ideas. Here's to a fortunate and well sexed anniversary. Have fun!
If you're anything like me, you could try perhaps going hiking, and then turning off the trail to a concealed part of the woods, then go at it all you like! One of my favorite games is to walk around a large clothing store with a friend, and see how many times we can flash each other.
IMO play acting is the best of the best. All of the porn sites play act parts like step dad and daughter, plumber and house wife, baby sitter and dad, pizza delivery guy and milf, etc. My wife and i do it all the time and it is so cool but e have our own little games. Let me know if you want more detail.
We went out a few weeks ago and I surprised my husband by taking my panties off at the restaurant when I went to the bathroom, handed them to him.. he was a bit in shock and instantly turned on lol did a lot of dirty talk at the table discreetly and it was fun! Turned into a good night.. I don't know if you have a pickup truck but our favorite thing to do is find a spot (preferably with a good view if at all possible), bring some pillows and blankets and basically picnic in the back of the truck.. either full meal or just dessert and drinks.. then we fool around and as long as no one is around we just lay around naked in our little makeshift "bed" in the back of the truck.. it's honestly my favorite thing to do even though it doesn't happen as often anymore.. simple, sexy and dare I say romantic
Very nice. One time we went up above in the hills above Los Angeles at night to just watch the lights. Then we did the nasty on the hood of my car. I have soft pillows and blanket in my trunk because this sort of thing happens very fequently. Once on a drive thru the snowy hills in Angeles Crest mountains we stopped along the road and went into the cover of forest and laid a blanket on the snow and got naked. Life is good.
We aren't that adventurous, but one thing we enjoyed was to go out to bars in a good part of the city. She would wear a thin halter top with no bra and short skirt with no panties. She is a natural beauty, so nothing else was needed to attract attention. She sat at the bar alone, and I sat a few places away. It was fun to watch the men hit on her, maybe even fondle her a bit. When they tried to get her to agree to sex, she would say she couldn't because she was meeting someone. Both of us got a thrill out of it, especially if we had a hotel room for the night and didn't have to ride home before having sex.
Spent an afternoon on top of a Arizona mountain. It started out with us trying to find a spring that was mentioned by a co-worker. Didn't find it but discovered a very nice open area on top of a mountain with a nice view of the valley below. We laid out a blanket and our picnic lunch. Soon we were nude and going at it missionary. My ass was sunburnt and so sore I couldn't sit down for several days.
This is safer too. When ever other humans are involved especially with alcohol there may be problems.
Take her to the beach , something about the salt air really gets my wife hot , We always get a nice hotel with our room facing the ocean , the luggage will barley hit the floor and she will be pulling her clothes off .
