I would let my spouse do this:

To all married men and women out there. What would you let (or like to see) your spouse do - if anything - outside of your marriage? Please specify if you are M or F and what sort of relationship you are in.

 

I sometimes fantasise about seeing another young woman seduce my wife & getting her to do things to my wife that I ask her to as well.

 

I would just like to watch my wife enjoying herself in ANY way she liked. I think it would be hot to watch her getting off in so many naughty ways.

 

I also love watching my wife masterbate, but if im in the same room as her when she's doing it, she always seems to manage to get me to do it for her!

 

I don't have a spouse, so answers are theoretical: both my reasonable relationships have been with other women. i answered with how those relationships fared and with my own behaviours.
I am a big Fan of reasonably open relationships.

I feel that I would allow most things except the phone/cyber stuff. Dowhat you want, but keep it in the open.

 

Watch porn and masturbate on their own???
That's some control freak action right there.

 

I'm a woman, and my husband may do anything he wants. We're just married. I've never understood marriage as an ownership arrangement. It's not as if he belonged to me.

 

I agree. I would let my partner do whatever they wanted as long as they were honest and open about it and let me enjoy the same privelages.

 

Its all about trust and honesty, if you trust then there is no worry, but you have to be sure of your feelings because once it has happened you cant turn the clock back,

 

My best friend has let me suck on his girlfriends toes and lick her feet as he watches.

 

I'd love for her to take a lover and have sex with him while I secretly watched.

I'd love her to take on me and a couple other males at the same time.

I'd love to see her making love with another woman (she did this once but I was out of town dammit).

I'd love to see her in a FFM with another couple.

I'd love to see her get creamed by a BBC.

Honestly, she could do anything she wanted, as long as we are together at the end of the day.

 

I would love to see my wife with another woman. An extra thrill would be for her to be very dominant and bitchy with the other woman, demanding to be worshipped while verbally abusing her. She thinks I'm nuts.

 

When we were in our 30's, I gave my wife permission, even urged her, to have sex with some younger men who kept flirting with her when they called on her office as sales reps. She was free to be with anybody, and she chose to try it a few times. That was years ago, and she hasn't wanted to do it again.

 

We had open relationship, and were both free to do as we pleased. At first it was no friends or co-workers, but later that didn't matter.

 

I'm a man married for over 47 years. I've seen my wife with other men while swinging, years ago. Today, I'd simply love to see my wife get turned on and want sex again. I wouldn't care who it was with, even me. I miss that hot woman I married so long ago.

 

I used to love watching my best friend pet and fuck my wife bareback (and cum inside her), but that was well over thirty years ago. Still, just remembering it gets me going!

 

I would let my wife do whatever she wanted as long as she told me about it afterwards. Pics/videos would be even better.

 

I would love to watch my wife sucking and fucking me and my best friend in a 3some.

 

Been there, and it’s awesome.

 

Im a 27 yo female and i love watching... id love to watch my bf get anything done that would make him climax the most. Fucking an other girl, masturbating, getting pegged (he loves that).... you name it! I just want to see him cum hard