I would have fucked her but she talks to much.

I used to have a similar problem with strippers.

 

right? i've met a few who seemed really nice, but bless them, they weren't quite so bright. there is a girl i went to school with who's in a cabaret style stripper group. i always thought she was pretty cool and fairly smart. great artist, too.

 

Yeah, there's a few like that. They don't stay in it very long.

 

i think she's kinda running the show, so far as i can tell. she's been at it for nearly ten years now. more pussycat dolls than pole dancing.

 

She found a way to make money from it without having to give lap dances to nasty ol' pervs. Some of the smarter ones also become strip club managers and/or owners. And some just marry a wealthy client.

 

yeah. some of the shitty, snotty kids we went to school with are all "like, OMG, she's a total stripper! i can't believe she shows her face!"

she was always nice to me and it's fun to make fun of the guys who go to the shows.

 

It's rare to find a gentleman in a gentleman's club.

Everybody says that the dancers never date customers, but if you go in there looking middle-aged and halfway normal, the over-30 divorced dancers will give you cards with their phone numbers. They know they can't keep that job much longer, and they have kids at home. I think it's amusing to get the cards. I don't ever use them.

 

All girls gossip. It's what they do man. Duh. Nicca I'm 16 and I know that.

...But I did tell a girl I thought she was the most annoying person I'd ever met, then later found out she was trying to impress me... See guys act like assholes. It's what we do man.

 

What situation was it? I need to analyze the conditions above all. People are not themselves. The situation dictates everything and they have no freedom of action.

 

At one point in my life I would have just fucked the girl without thinking about the consequences.

Then for the next several months I would be dealing with the aftermath and utter insanity.

It is good to grow up.

I bet I saved myself about 6 months or so of hell by not fucking her.

 

I know what you're saying. It's important to turn codependency-seekers down. Pussy isn't everything! Pussy of mind is!

 

The situation was kind of complex.

She was staying in one of my houses.

She always has choice. There were no terms or conditions for her staying at the house. She does not live at my house. She can come and go as she pleases. I do not go into the house she lives in.

I actually like her. Wish she had her own life to talk about instead of other peoples.

If I could control her run away mouth, it would be fine. But I cant control anyone and I am not even going to try.

You cant teach good judgement to someone. They have to learn that on their own. I just am not going to be a casualty of her learning curve.

I live in a dangerous area. Someone repeating the wrong thing, to the wrong person can bring me massive problems.

I am not going to kick her out of the house, but I am definetly not going to fuck her.

 

when i find out something i'd be better off knowing, i carefully construct a lie i can replace the information with so that when i open my mouth the wrong thing doesn't come out. it usually works. i also avoid scary people.

 

I bet you'd make a hot dom

 

i'm gonna lose my weight and make a fantastic dom.

i also enjoy pretending to be a tranny. like, HUGE PILES OF MAKEUP tranny.

 

I'd prefer the chick pretending to be a pornstar.. but hey, as long as you don't tell me you have a 'surprise' or a 'love muscle' or some shit, we all good

 

porn stars fake it. how is anyone supposed to learn how to please them if they fake it all the time?

 

I just meant the makeup. that shit is HOT.

 

oh, yeah, it's fun to do from time to time. it kinda takes you outside of your own head.

 

red lipstick, dark eye makeup, heels and stockings during sex = there is a god

*dies*