I wish my wife would still -- for guys

Let's face it guys - our penis is representative of our manhood. I wish my wife would treat it as such - with just a little bit of awe - even if she is acting. I need to feel I am a male. Right now I am a burden that must be serviced once a week.
I also wish we had oral sex like we did 20 years ago - even at a fraction of the intensity. For me to do her - IIIII don't think so - not in the cards. For her to do me - it ain't happening.
Physically not as likely as earlier, but I wish she would take control and use me.
Anybody else or am I alone?

 

You are not alone. The phrase should read 'familiarity breeds contempt'...lol.
Sort it out the best way you can, man. Life's too short. If she thinks she's got you by the balls, she has no incentive to change. You need to read Roissy's '16 commandments of poon' for some insight.

 

Sad. Hope things pick up soon for you.

 

You are not along buddy. Been married 30 years here. Feel the same way. Reach out if you want to chat privately.

 

<<Says the entire male human race>>

 

You have to find what turns her on. Turns out after all the talk of my wife despising public touching, a month ago we were walking in a store and , thinking no one was looking, I slapped her butt and made it jiggle as she was wearing a tight, thin dress with no panties. As we walked a few more steps, she turned and noticed a couple of teenage guys walking behind us, both staring so hard at her ass it was ridiculous. She blushed and didn't say anything, but a few isles later I noticed the guys peeping around the corner or a shelf, and turned to my wife who was bending over with her dress up just high enough to get a peak! I acted like I didn't notice, but she was rubbing herself on the ride home, I ended up getting a b.j. while driving and she got even more excited when I pulled her dress up exposing her ass to others.

 

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You "get serviced once a week"?! HOLY SHIT!
Jaysus, mate; count your lucky stars!