I am 60 straight. Married for 40 years. I got into wearing a Gstring about four years ago. When I first bought one my wife liked the look. I bought a few more but found them a bit tight in one area, (Not to brag). My wife makes her own clothes. To my surprise one day I came home and found a new custom Gstring, she made for me, on our bed. She has been making them for me ever since. i wear metal cock rings now also. The combination of the Gstring and the weighted rings is a thrill at work everyday. No one know except me and my wife. And now you of course. LOL. Wear what you like. Live and let live. Cheers