If you think you are REALLY in love with a straight guy and you ACTUALLY wish he was gay... doesn't that mean you actually don't love him? Because if you really did you wouldn't want him to be gay and have to live a harder life because of it...
I am in love with a guy who is straight. But I am glad he is straight. Because I just want him to be happy.
I get what you're saying. But I think that by wishing that someone is gay, you're wishing that they'd be happy being gay / want to be gay. It's kind of a weird concept.