I want to tell my wife I'm bi

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by sockfetish, Jun 8, 2014.

  1. sockfetish

    sockfetish Member

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    But I know I never will. We don't have sex much anymore because of the. I know her and if I tell her she'll want a divorce. I'd honestly want to have sex more if there was another guy involved.
     
  2. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Yeah, you have to finish that sentence
     
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  3. Siga Creciendo

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    Try building up to that topic. Maybe discuss sex more with her and try new things to spice up the sex life, maybe watch some porn with her eventually leading to threesome porn. Maybe guy/girl/girl porn first then guy/guy/girl porn just to feel out how open she would be to the idea?
     
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  4. RubySoho6

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    The only natural thing to do is let her walk in on you during a naked tickle fight with another man. That seems like the logical thing to do here.
     
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  5. Skywise

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    Yes...In your underwear. Then she'll notice that you both have erections, and it will be obvious!
     
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  6. Duncan

    Duncan Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    So, have you ever had sex with another guy yet?
     
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  7. Sunny7518

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    You are in the exact same boat as me, sounds like a post i have been wanting to write but you did it for me we should chat
     
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  8. Steveh

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    That's what i did, let myself get caught with another guy in bed with him
     
  9. NXCUCK

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    My advice to you is this , try to encourage her to have sex with another man. Let her know you love her for all the world and you want her to enjoy terrific sex with a great lover, that it’s a fantasy of yours and be submissive about it , let her know you are dirt under her shoes. If she takes the bait , go further, let her know you want to watch, let her know she is the boss, you will pay to get her hair and manicure done, buy her sexy clothes. Eat hot cum of her lover. Little steps man .
     
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  10. WOLF ANGEL

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    So that makes you a selfish coward then
     
  11. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    Oh wait:-
    sockfetish was last seen: Jul 24, 2017
    Maybe, I guess a decision was made
     
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  12. DaveTheBiGuy

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    There's a big difference between being bisexual and Cuckolding... Which you are implying having his wife do to him. Although Cuckolding tends to bring out gay/bisexual urges/desires in cuckold men... He never stated he wanted his wife to be involved in his bisexual activities... Only that he wants to tell her that he's bisexual. I can understand his nervousness in tellinf her he's bisexual, because A LOT of wives simply wouldn't understand, and just assume he's a closet case gay, and that he's just "using" her for cover.
     
  13. Nudegardner

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    My wife suggested that I may be Bi!
    My therapists think so too.

    I know I was before everyone else of course,sort of a soft coming out.

    The only person that it upset is my MIL,too bad it only upset her a little bit,she's still here on this plane of existence.
     
  14. Irminsul

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    Why would you tell your mother in law you were bi?

    I understand the need for a gay person to come out, but bi? Pff.
     
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  15. Nudegardner

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    Anything to send the bat into a tizzy!

    No real need.

    I've been battling her for 22 years!
     
  16. Mate you know within yourself what your sexuality preference is.
    All you have to do is ask your MIL what she thinks of your behaviour.

    She might be a bit upset at you because she's a christian and has some strong beliefs.
    Let her know that you accept that her beliefs are ok as well and you might just have a good compromise
     
  17. laserbush23

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    so dramatic
     
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    I did bring it up my wife first as a joking way. she did not think it was a good idea, asked her what if I do it without her knowing and her reply, if you did, she would find out and be mad. I betting she will not and has not found out yet.
     
  19. NXCUCK

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    With my wife , I convinced her to have sex with another man , while the black man was throwing it to her , about half way through their torrid missionary position fuck , when she was squirting and had this great boot stuck in mud sound , I asked to have a taste . I sucked her juices off . Stuck it back in . After that I sucked it when ever I wanted. She wasn’t going to complain . She wanted more of that bbc too !
     
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  20. Steveh

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    I know, my wife's first BBC was so great for the both of us. She got a huge dick and cummed a few times, and i got one too to suck
     
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