I want to punch him in the face, but can't stop thinking about him...

The trouble with that is, you might not have done anything wrong in the first place. It might have been them and not you.

 

Yeah, but I always blame myself.

 

It's difficult, imho, because we are all right and wrong, and we all make mistakes or not.
But, we only tend to listen to the way we judge ourselves.
If we decide we are always wrong. We are screwed.

I've just joined okcupid and expect to sleep with half of Leicester...wish me luck.

 

I guess you can see it that way. I think the way others judge us plays a huge part. My last real relationship didn't end well, and I still feel like I am to blame even though I was faithful.

Ooh yes, good luck! If all else fails, the other half may also work

 

Tbh, most of the time I do not know how others actually feel about me, if things go wrong. Not helpful.

Thank You.

 

Well said! I agree with you.

Flirting is not "committing" to *only* looking at that one person your flirted with.

 

Now, I think I have a pretty good idea of what people think about me. Screw them

 

I hope you used a disposable email account

they send craploads of match notices and "quivers" ...im so glad I thought ahead the time I joined that

 

Think again.!!!!

 

I dunno if I read it all right, but it sounds like he moved on...

 

if not by the time the thread was written, at least in the 11 months since..

 

Fair enough. Somebody else did the bumping, so it looked like a recent thread to me

 

Right now, I very much doubt I need to.