i want to buy a sex doll to be my gf.

hi, im Owen. i'm 39 and i live in california. i have a thin 4 inch penis and haven't had sex in 15 years. i am also a premature ejaculator, and because of these things i am intimidated and nervous near women. i don't feel comfortable trying to date anyone so i am planning on buying a silicon love doll to be my girlfriend. i think i will feel safe and comfortable with a doll instead of a woman. what do you think of my decision?

 

I see nothing wrong with it. Just do some internet searches and there are lots available. Now the good ones are around $5,000 or more, in US dollars. But you'd end up paying a lot more than that in a relationship with a human.

 

Terrible decision.


Use the money towards a life coach.
The counseling will pay you back life changing dividends.

 

Great Idea, I hear life-size asian sex dolls are extremely popular these days. Free shipping, and no import tax or fees.

Just picture this scene; You come home after a long day at the office to your Asian honey just sitting there on the sofa waiting to greet you with open legs. She’ll never say no, she’ll never argue over position, and she’ll never have a headache.

You pour yourself a good long drink and tell her all about your day at the office. Later over an intimate candlelight dinner you discuss future plans involving marriage and children.

You promise to take her to the doll section of Toys R Us over the weekend to select a boy or girl.- could anything be more romantic than that?

 

Life in a relationship isn't just about sex, it's about companionship and many other things, yes a doll will never refuse you sex, but it can't listen and reply when you want to discuss a bad day at work, or some other problem in life. As others have said, perhaps learn some life skills and find a real girlfriend. Remember though, you won't just go out and pick up a girl like you pick up some shopping, you can meet people in the most unlikely places.
A girlfriend will open up other area's of life to you also, going to clubs, meals with friends, bbq's etc, all places where you cannot turn up with a sex doll.

 

Dude you have plenty of options, hookers, escort services, and massage parlors that offer a happy ending. And those girls don’t care about your size, only the size of your wallet.

 

Hotwater is right.

 

C/S,
Rev J

 

If it releases sexual tensions and frustrations then I can't see anything wrong with that.But it's only a short term solution and some of the other ideas such as counselling may be better as a longer term solution .

 

Just go get laid, simple as that.
I know you can do it, no need for no sex dolls.
They don’t react or none of that shit.
No psychical connection there etc whatsoever.
all plastic and unrealistic.

 

That’s a fucking cracker of a reply there hotwater.
Laughed me bollocks off over that I did!

 

No one knows the difficuties that an individual deals with.
Short term, Get the Doll
Long term, Take advice/ support , - Consider and act
The choices you make have sit well with you
.

 

Good post there WOLF.
By the way folks, I was not trying to make fun of the original poster there in replying to hotwater.
I was just laughing at the funny way he presented the situation.

 

Not all relationships work out. Before you take the plunge, make sure you have the emotional strength to deal with it if she dumps you. Not all dolls are willing to put up with premature ejaculation. Just because she's silicone doesn't mean she'll have no standards for a boyfriend.

Just make sure there's plenty of foreplay, and, at least once in a while, let her pick out the porn the two of you will watch that evening.

 

amphetamines work well for premature ejaculation & they'll get you high too!

 

hang in there, too bad not closer, I like small thin cocks, how ever they cum

 

Hi Owen, it's been 3 months. Did you get a doll? If so, can you give us an update?

 

Maybe do some hookers to get your confidence. They don't judge and will try make you feel good and have sex with you. You pay for the time if you get a load away quick and can get hard again you can go again. They are people too.
I saw a show on sex dolls,.the lifelike ones. There is a brothel where you can rent a room with different models. There was a rich widower who has several that he takes in the car and keeps around the house that was a little wired.
I would try have sex with one. I would also keep it to myself. I don't tell my friends I toss off sometimes watching porn, I'm open to watching different types, I'm straight but I would try some different stuff in private.
Try hookers, therapy etc. I am shy, we are all different we should not judge but we do including me. Some people are weird your 4" dick is a part of who you are have the confidence to date there is someone for everyone.

 

Bad bad idea, it will only be a temporary fix. In your situation, I would rather use that money to seek out professional help. That doll you are planning on getting is not going to do for you more, than your own hand can do. What you need is to have confidence in yourself. You have put this idea in your head, that you are inadequate and less of a man, and believe it or not there are other men in worse situations than you, and they are living life to the fullest. There is no need for you to continue living life without satisfaction and happiness. Do yourself a favor and for once seek professional help, it will be money well expended. Just for clarification, having a large penis does not automatically guarantee you women are going to fall to their feet and want to be with you. In order to make any girl, or woman fall in love with you, it takes a whole lot more than having a big penis. The secret to get women to fall for you is mainly CONFIDENCE in yourself, the rest is easy. From an early age, I myself believed I could get any girl I wanted, and guess what, I DID.