so me and this girl laura have been friends basically our whole lives but ya know JUST friends because i was always to scared to ask her out. recently like within the past month or so she approched me with a slightly altered dynamic, about every few days she will come over and suck my dick but she made me promise that it wouldnt change anything that we would still be friends and nothing would be weird i of course said yes. however like the title says since the new dynamic has been put into affect iv started craving more i no longer want to just be friends with her i want her as my girlfriend do you think by asking her i could potentially fuck up not just a guys dream deal but also lose a friend in the process? any and all advice is greatly appreciated
I think you should tell her the truth about how you feel, but tread carefully and also show respect to her feelings. If she doesn't want anything more than a friendship with benefits, don't force her. Maybe she's just not ready for a relationship yet. But honesty is the best policy, and who knows, maybe someday she'll be willing to try a relationship because she knows you trust her.
Does she just give you head or do you two fuck? I'm of the opinion that if you fuck any woman well enough she'll want to stay with you.
it's hard to say. if this was real life, then yes i would think altering the agreement could fuck things up in all sorts of ways. but then, this is fantasy fiction so the rules don't necessarily apply. i think the protagonist should go for it, because in literature this sort of thing usually works out. unless it's a tragedy, in which case you'll probably end up dead anyway.
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