I Want A Bisexual Boyfriend

Hi there. This is my first time posting anything here. I am a 38 year old straight female but I'm always fantasizing about bisexual guys. It turns me on so much. I think I have read every post in this forum and have gotten off on so many of the stories about your experiences. Thank you for that. I would love to find a guy who is bi and share guys with him. I would love to watch him suck cock and be sucked. To watch a man swallow a load would be absolutely fantastic as long as I got a load too. Now question is will I ever find a man like this???

 

Nope.

 

The main problem will be that most of them will think you want a bi guy so you get a husband that you dont have to have sex with

 

Oh no I want to have sex. I want lots of it. I will gladly do both at the same time as well. I love sex and everything about it. It's just watching two guys together would turn me on even more.

 

Do you want to peg this guy?

 

Just saying that doesnt mean anything cos they are used to girls trying to sex it up at the start but just want boyfriend onto husband then kids.

Thread title is 'I want a bisexual boyfriend' which part actually comes first, the boyfriend part, or that he is bisexual?

From their perspective, its how ever long it takes to get you into the bedroom vs the sometimes minutes it will take for them to get a guy sucking on their willy. How long does it take to get you into the bedroom if he has to be your boyfriend first? Months?

 

I don't want a husband or kids. I have kids already and did the husband thing. Not doing that again. What I mean by boyfriend I guess would be a regular guy in my life. And when you are as horny as I am well let's just say I'm don't wait long. If I'm attracted to a guy then why wait. We are both adults.

 

What I mean is the opposite of all that.

Think and do like a bi guy, meaningless casual sex with dozens of guys, then from that you might get one that becomes regular

Hit on them, actually TELL them you are super horny, just want a shag, NO STRINGS attached

 

Then how will she ever get a boyfriend?

 

Exactly, she wants a boyfriend first, none of the rest is really true

 

And why can it not be true? There are guys here who are married and enjoy the best of both worlds. I want that too. I want the intimacy of a relationship but the excitement and fulfillment of sharing a guy. I think anyone who is bisexual or gay is amazing. The courage to come out to the world and be who you are shows how strong you are. Most people don't have that strength but wish they had it. And I bet you there are a lot of straight people out there like me who are so turned on by it.

 

Good luck. Don't grow old waiting. Don't get depressed if no one comes along for a looooong time. Get a straight boyfriend and see how it feels. If it does not fit your life style get a gay boyfriend, (that should be fun,) and try that. Don't let these relationships go on for years, move on. Decide what you like and if you happen to find a bisexual guy and both of you hit it off, great, if not move on.

 

Hey Big Love...seems like some people here dont want to actually offer advice. What you are looking for shouldn't be that hard to find. I would think you're harder to find than a bi guy. There are a ton of guys here and other sites that are either married and terrified of their wives finding out they would like a little cock on the side or just cant find a girl that understands they really aren't gay.

 

Good Luck i hope you will find them with big dicks

 

just have to show some patience and keep looking im sure there are plenty of bi guys out there that would love someone who is understanding enough to share not only themselves but other guys as well as yourself good luck with you search

 

You can easily find a bisexual boyfriend, just look in the right places

 

The guy you're looking for could be me!! Fit the profile perfectly!

 

Go to a few bisexual lifestyle parties... Look on Meet.com, and you're bound to find some local parties in your area. Attend a few parties, mingle, and go from there.

 

Damn! Where were you when I was younger and single? You sound perfect to me!

Sigh. Too late.

But I think there's hope for you. There's a lot of us guys who are basically straight but have gay desires. Just browse these boards and you'll see plenty of guys posting similar feelings. So there are actually many guys with such desires. The problem is that they're afraid to admit it, out in the open. It's still too taboo. You've got to get them to overcome that fear of admitting their desires to you. They'll think you view them as some pussy fag boy, and not a real man. Maybe look at hooking up with local internet chat boards for such. Or Craigslist. Of course proper vetting is important. You could also go to a gay bar and hit on some guy - or a gay couple. You'd be surprised what might happen.

Good luck, and let us know how it turns out! Post details!

 

OP has long gone, but in case she sneaks back in:

Big Love, notice how most of the replies, the guys will say, "Sure dead easy to find a bi boyfriend", but then give you instructions on how to get casual sex, i.e no boyfriend....like they arent even listening

A gay couple sitting in a bar waiting for a bunch of bi guys that dont want to "do everything", or the odd girl that initially goes there so she wont get hassled but then gets pissed off and throws a tanty cos she doesnt get objectified.

Yeah that happens a lot, we just sit around gay bars waiting for that stuff to happen