If you feel ready to put yourself out there If you have a social circle that includes older men, older people. If you sense a vibe, a connection, explore it with subtle questions, and if you feel braver, be a little less subtle. If you know someone you trust, talk about it and he/she can be your wing person who could test the person of your desires and give him a hint, a nudge for things to happen. Or place an ad, but take the time to get to know the person before giving it a try. But don’t take too long. Now that you would be online be open, never expect a man to know everything and read your mind. Biggest mistake! Expect the possibility of having a disappointing experience, however also the possibility of something awesome. Again I wish you luck and wish we could meet and make this a beautiful experience for both of us.
I’m with a gal 20 years younger than me. Lucky for her and me, my libido is still going strong. She’s built, cute and I don’t get why she’s not with younger guys (my former gf was 26 years than me). I have a fat dick but it has to more than that keeping her with me Too bad we can’t get together more often.
When my wife was in her 30's, she had mind-blowing sex with a man who was 65. She was his escort to a formal event and then went to his penthouse where they fucked several times.
I'm an old man that would love a younger woman but no longer get rock hard. I don't. like the idea of medication. So, I guess I'll be happy just fantasizing.
I would think long and serious about your desires and make sure you are also emotionally prepared for your experiences. I am 64 and am extremely cautious and sensitive when it comes to encounters with anyone under 40. There have been exceptions however. I will never approach nor attempt to “hit on” anyone under 40 unless they essentially make the first move. Believe me this does not happen often but I find if I am with someone younger than on several occasions they have actually asked me to meet their friends for encounters. Strange but true. There is a young lady on these boards who I respect and believe she is mature enough to handle encounters and it is a person like that who I would feel comfortable with. I have been with some ladies in their 20s. One was an employee of a tanning salon who after knowing her for sometime actually asked me to help her sow her oats. Another was a barista. We meet from time to time and with both we realize it is strictly physical and are able to manage the emotional. So please consider my thoughts as you move forward. And please strongly consider your partner use a condom no matter what your birth control situation is. I’m not trying to be the boring lecturer but just hoping I can provide some meaningful advice so you have enjoyable experiences. Best regards
Thanks for this - I really appreciate it. I'm in therapy so I try to handle my mental health is a pretty serious way. I 100% get where you're coming from. I'll definitely take it slow. The guy I'm talking to is 64, we play together online and do some phone stuff so far. He's really nice. He's down to talk until I'm comfy. He turns me on every single day just from messaging me. So I hope it works out and we can meet up soon. Thanks for sharing your experiences. This isn't easy to find people to talk it over with in a serious way. I'll 100% use protection and make sure they know my limits.
Being in my early 70's I had the pleasure of 2 women, both in their 30's, at different times earlier this year. Presently I have connected with a rather sassy woman in her very late 20's. It's strictly an on line connection but fun none the less. We had a lot of fun even with the age gap. They have all told me that they feel more at ease with me due to my age and maturity. This may be what you feel also Voyeurgirl. My advice is to make it just about having sex. No more, no less.
I just had phone sex with him and he came so quickly, it was adorable. I cannot wait to make this man cum from simply existing.