I don't think women see sex as taboo or naughty these days. And to be bloody frankly honest, staring is rude and I think we have an optional voice to use in the process and this voice says "keep your eyes to the ground, mongrel scum!". =D Whether you like it or not, many women don't want to be looked at with eyes of debauchery.
I dont know iam always telling my friends to stop whenever they do it, but now since iam hearing their side of the story which is summed up in the op, i can see why LOL
I think girls expect guys to look at them that way... Sometimes its the only way to get things going. Say your in a bar (Or anywhere really), you check her out, then she brushes her hair back(Guys if you don't know, thats a sign she likes you, she brushes her hair with her hand right after you look at her), so then you smile, she smiles... And then if your unlucky you say something stupid like "So is it always this hot here?" haha... I try to be original, but sometimes it doesn't work...:2thumbsup:
after all, girls don't wear miniskirts and high heels on cold nights on the town for comfort! And jeans so tight they have to literally Jump a few time just to fit in them, haha... I appreciate all that though.:love: