I Truly Hate People.

:redface: I was half expecting to be told to stand in the naughty corner then

Seriously tho, maybe (for argument's sake) if you found your husband messing around with say your 3 best friends, you might think "ok dust myself off and start again". That might work for you. And thats great. One incident, one with another person etc. But maybe over much time, and many things you'd alter your mindset maybe?

TBH its not about hating people now. Its just about solutions and then whatever. I hated them before, and I'll hate them going forward. I won't be incandescently livid in a few years time. More of a smouldering contempt. Which maybe I'll somehow live with by NLP brainwashing. Happy?: )

PS my best friend hates almost all people too (maybe thats why we're best friends?). But anyway, he has a wonderful life. Until he trusts someone (true story).

Anyway I like being miserable. Excuse me while I dress up as a Goth, sleep in a coffin and play that Morrissey song on repeat!

Ok would the thread be more fun with a guy?
Actually thats the point, its not just about one person. Probably 50 or whatever persons over 15 yrs. But thats a different story.

 

Lot of people seem to say the same as me. Some even more so...

 

Most people are just looking out for themselves. Selfishness is not necessarily a bad thing, it's probably the most natural trait that exists. This extends past humans and into every other life form on Earth. Self-preservation. It manifests itself differently in different folks. Most bad behavior is just the result of self-preservation, in one of it's many forms. How can you "hate" people for doing what comes innately?

People aren't even "bad" as a whole, and social relationships are often mutually beneficial, while cynicism is not.

 

Well the title of your thread seems psychopathological to me.

 

LIke I said, I hate cauliflower too.
Whats the difference between cynicism and self preservation? Not much IMO.

Anyway thankyou for the posts people, the helpful ones anyway!
No one's changed my opinion, and I wasn't looking for it to be changed. But its been instructive anyway.

 

You're trying to hold on to your energy, but you give it away in trying to grasp it. Did you lose it when you became involved in a relationship that you thought you could hold onto forever, or did you feel the loss of your energy when you "lost" a relationship that in reality can't be held? Same question for expectations for other people.

I think everyone who gives up on people should give people a second chance. But anyone will get dissapointed if they feel that they can hold on to actions, feelings or commitments from others, any more than a person can hold on to their own youth. Maybe it's best to be content with what others are willing and able to give, and give the same in return...in each moment. Then there might not be disappointment.

Just my opinion.

 

If you think people are significant enough to hate, then you must believe in the innate goodness of people. If all of our emotions are arbitrary programs we're following, then we aren't even evil in our hearts. We are just zombies at heart. You can't hate a zombie like you hate a person. I.e. you can't take a zombie personally.

 

Thanks for your post. But there's an energy we all need to keep. Otherwise we die, whether we are breathing or not.

I've given people 2nd chances, 20th, 50th even. Lots of people.
As for this particular situation, its about trying to reason with a person who, to be polite, can't fully admit the truth to themselves even right now.

Not all emotions, but often the key ones, often people can't wake up and see it all for what it is.
I am thinking of other people who have been ill, for years and years because of it. And then take it out on others (ie on me).

Well think of serial killers. If one was trying to kill you, wouldn't you take it personally?

I hate others, but try to behave the right way to others(successfully too)
The girl who hates herself, transmutes this in causing harm to me.
Thereby vindicating my views and stance..
The circle of ugliness defined.

So yes, beauty does mask ugliness.

 

Thank you for this thread.

You have reminded me that I truly LOVE people, always have, and always will.

Thank you.

 

Ok glad you've enjoyed it.

Personally, I felt confused on Tuesday.
Today I feel I might as well be reading Chinese hieroglyphics. Upside down, listening to a pneumatic drill.
I'm glad your approach works for you. But its not for me. : )

 

the only people i find annoying are humans.

 

I wish more people thought the way you do. I try, but my temper gets the best of me sometimes and I lose my Zen.

 

Is there another type?


hotwater

 

Humans= a group

Subgroups:-
humans, animals, anti-humans, shells, possessed people, the evil, the living dead
and lots more, IMO.

 

I truly hate purple

 

So basically you’re suggesting we should include, Vampires, Werewolves, Demons,…..etc….OK


Hotwater

 

Prob not. I've no idea on the total classification. But I know I've seen people breathing who are dead inside.

 

I don't think people that really dislike or hate people have had people do and say the things that people have done and said to me. So, it's weird because I've seen how bad people can get, yet I still consider them beautiful. However, these people haven't really experienced that, yet they already think people are ugly, humanity is ugly, and they dislike/hate people. So, it's like... okay, what's happening here, because this doesn't make sense.

 

Cant ignore. La la la. Only read first post though. Hey, I hate ppl sometimes too, alotta shitty ppl out there that will walk over you if you let them..but you dont really hate people and you know it. I do know the feeling but ive always tried to balance it by looking at the good people. And they are there and btw, you are one of them. msg me when you wanna talk.