I think my wifes BF has a thing for me...

So I just wanted to put this out there and see what everyone thinks. I am married, and my wifes best friend (who is also married) has been kind of flirting with me, but I have been out of the game for so long that I kind of have mixed signals. Am I overanalyzing this? Or is she really trying to come onto me? I see her almost every day because I own my own business and she is one of my employees. Here are some of the things she does..
1. Every day she talks to me about something personal in her life, whether it is about her, her husband, or both of them.
2. She frequently asks me (and my wife) to hang out with her and her husband. Sometimes she will even ask to hang out with my wife and I by herself if her husband isn't able to. But she always asks me about plans and not my wife.
3. She always remembers the little details about me like my favorite things and what I don't like. If we go out on a double date, she will even point out that the restaurant we go to has my favorite dessert.
4. She is always the first person to "like" and comment on several of my postings on facebook.
5. We frequently joke around at work to make the time pass, and many times, when I make a (jokingly) insult to her, she always has to hit me.
6. I complimented her one time on a perfume that she wore and now that is all she ever wears.

There are several other things she does but I don't want to write a novel about it. Basically, I am just looking to see if these are signs that she is into me. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife and would not cheat on her, but she is also very attractive. I guess I am just looking for that "confirmation" that what I think (which is that she likes me) is true.

 

well, i dsay some peoples are really more lovely with others, they just like to give lots of attention. I would stick with the idea she's just a friend ya maybe she like you, but we both know your married and she does too. At all, if she has something too you that wont last forever she will finally get to the idea that you are married and she'll change a bit. Or maybe she's just lovely with you because she think your a nice guy, but it aint about wanting you has a bf. Some girl give way too much attention too man they just dont seem to care so much. Those are just lonely and dream about love, all they know is that they are doing nothing wrong so just let her be and if she try to get more involve well put your limite or try to ignore her . Hope it helps -Jérémie

 

All of that stuff sounds like everyday stuff to me. I'm close to my wife's friends and they do similar things that you have stated and they don't want to jump my bones. It might be that I'm not attractive though. I don't remember commenting on anyone's perfume though - maybe that's the key.

 

I think she wants you

 

Quite possible; not definite.

 

Kiss your wife in front of her and whisper in your wife's ear (barely loud enough for the friend to hear) "You don't know how bad I want to be in you right now". Then act like nothing happened and carry on. If your wife hits you it's a good thing the friend will see hitting is a game you and the wife already play.

 

How about asking her if she is hitting on you?

 

Wait, aren't you forgetting to mention that your wife is pregnant and you really do want to have sex with her friend? I swear we've been through this before....

 

And the plot thickens,,,,,

 

I like thick Plots.....

 

Oh man this is disgusting. Don't come to the boards say something one place and then try to play your situation off as another thing on a different thread BECAUSE WE KNOW. We can see ALL your posts. You may think you can play us for idiots, but the truth is the real idiot is you.

 

I like some things thick,,, ok thick plots excite me too,,,,

 

Crap, I thought we had made this place Idiot proof.

 

Sally......

 

Yessssss,,,,?























Hee hee

 

You know.....

 

You can spank me later,,, I mean thank me later,,,
What were we talking about again???

 

Spanking coming your way.

Thick something or another

 

You two-obtain an enclosure!

 

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Yes sir..... Sorry.