It definitely sounds like you're putting him beofre yourself, but you have to be honest with yourself, if he had another place to stay would you still be with him? Does he bring you happiness anymore or only pain and doubt? Get him a bus ticket to florida or someplace warm so he doesnt have to be stuck in the cold outside, I'm sure he can figure out waht to do, he got himself into this mess so why can''t he just deal with it?!
*in heavy arnie accent* look out! get down! the bridge is going to blow! don't be such a girly man! vote arnie for govenor!! lol yeaaaaaaa. i love using the arnie voice.....uhhh, sorry annie, got a lil carried away