yeah its their choice, but if it wasnt their choice, why would you judge them? judgement comes hand in hand with the choices someone makes. i didnt really use the right terms in concern to learning and stuff. i just dont see suicide as a way 'out', its so much more, its getting rid of the maze of life itself. if someone thought of life this way, and still wanted to kill themselves, then they would do it wihtout any problems whatsoever. if you halt then it means theres a reason to not commit suicide. which therefor means you see death and life as something thats continuous. which means you undervalue life, in my oppinion!
I have said similar things, and believed the same as that for most of my life. It has only been a little over a year that this changed. I used to say suicide is for quitters, its a cop out, its the easy way out, and a losers choice. Though I still firmly feel I will never commit suicide, I now don't feel that it is always the wrong choice. You may be right that you value life more than me, cuz there are serial killers in prison right now that I'd gladly do in. There lives are less than zero to me. I just feel now that I decide for me, and let them decide for them. I remember reading that in the high arctic an elder who felt that the burden of care being spent towards their continued life was endangering the younger family members survival, they would go for a walk.... They would see that the resources were needed for the childrens survival, they had their turn, and if anyone was the logical choice to choose to sacrifice their life, the oldest one makes the most sense. I see no wrong in their suicide, in fact, I am humbled by it. I know how you feel though, too, and understand your position.
My friend is being like this right now... Im ready to kill him.... I fell bad for him i Know hes going through alot... But Dont use it get attention... Its now backfireing.. Ill always be there fro him but its going on 4 months of this "Oh wowes me" crap... Im getting tired of it... Hes gonna push all his friends away...
Well, I've known people that WANTED to die but never attempted suicide (including myself) That is a horrible feeling so I can only imagine being pushed to the point of actually doing it. I've also known a couple of people that use it so people will come running to the rescue. I have mixed feelings on those people. On one hand, I feel that if they need attention that bad then they are sick and need help. And if they get, it may be exactly what they need. On the other hand, I feel like its taking away from, disrespectful to, and making a mockery of the pain that someone that actually kills themselves is in.... I dunno. I don't understand suicide
I occasionally "play" with suicide, but I never tell anyone about it. I think it's more just to test how much I want to live, just to see how much will to live I have. Not to ever really consider doing it, but just to see where I stand on things. It's kind of weird. I don't actually know anyone who seriously threatens to kill themselves, at least not in real life.
i value the life i have too much to even consider suicide, i have trouble keeping my ass alive without even trying to get myself killed suicide for me is just plain idiotic no matter which way i look at it, there is no sane reason to do so, unless your in some sort of extreme physical pain in which there is no other option, but thats different ive had many of my friends try suicide, at least two have succeded the others were only depressed, but the impact it has is hard to deal with, ive had six cousins that went out by suicide and they got the most attention they ever wanted a body bag and swift burning by the state coroner, no funerals, no services, nothing for any of em. whats the use of attention when your dead?? i try to help the best i can and that often ends up hurting me more than anyone else, in the end the best they can come up with is a slow suicide, one where you lose the will to live and have no hope whatsoever and over time by either alcohol or drugs they end their lives like they planned to