i think i'm really pretty

lucky, pretty much every thoguht of mine is how much i hate myself, and how noone else really even likes me. they dont hate me, just...yeah...

 

Yeah I agree. I'm pretty and all my friends are v. good looking and it sucks when they go "eugh my nose is so big, boys wont date me b/c my hair is frizzy, my boobs are too small...etc" And then they look at me expecting me to say something, and when I say that I'm happy with myself they think I'm covering something up ... eughhh. I'M GOOD LOOKING, YOU ARE TOO, I'M NOT GOING TO WALK AROUND FISHING FOR COMPLIMENTS TO VALIDATE MYSELF. And I will not apologize for my self-respect and value!

 

Well i quite dress like emo... Not on purpose and no mascara though... And i listen to very different music from metal to reggae etc but everyone labels me as emo... It pisses me off... How all they see is how i dress and how long my hair is... I don't think of myself as pretty boy but i know i'm not butt-ugly so im happy with that... I don't get the poit of complaining how ugly you are... If you think so than just keep it to yourself and let others judge it for themselves... But worst is when somebody says that somebódy is ugly when they are not...

 

Im WELL pretty

 

i think its not that people have low self esteem...i think its just when people look at themselves in the mirror they look for their flaws, which are usually quite few but the many subtle perfections and beauty get obscured and overlooked by the flaws that noone esle is likely to notice.

Thats how i see it anyway

 

I also think I'm quite pretty, all my friends are quite pretty too and thankfully they enknowledge that because I think you can only be truly happy if you like yourself, and not just the inside, you have to face your reflection aswell. Feeling pretty makes you confident and that as a result leads to a better social life, which makes for more happiness, so yaeh do like your own looks its a good thing.

 

idk man.
I think I'm pretty, too.
it's always been my feeling that this gets me enough attention that I don't need to moan about how 'ugly' I am for additional attention.

we're the 'look at me' generation. it can be pretty pathetic.

 

I think I am pretty too, take care of my self not only on the outside but the inside to. It kills me to hear when my friends complain about the stupidest things. If girls really think guys wont date them because of there big nose or frizzy hair those girls are not ready for a relationship.
and for pwnypls: I obviously dont know you, but dont hate yourself, life is to short to worry about things like this. I dont want to tell you what to do i just want everyone to atleast be content with who they are, and realize everyon is pretty inside and out.

 

Wow...

 

That's the way to go, you're a very smart girl! And a lucky one, too!
It's great to feel good about yourself and like yourself for what you are!
Never change that!
And you could help your friends to accept themselves too!

 

You are.

 

:] you're sweet.

and of course it goes without saying that you are an incredibly lovely lady as well.

 

Oh yes, I so much agree that most people are pretty in their own way! So much people looking fine but making themselves ugly by their ego whining and bad self esteem. Really, that's what makes a lot of people unattractive, they don't accept who they are and how they look.
So I also think it's not that it's cool to hate yourself or be depressed, but it's more a thing as always trying to look better. That's the real trend. Look at all the commercials and role models, and how many people that complain actually wish they had this hair or that weight that they see so much on the tv.

Hear fucking hear! :cheers2: Sometimes I never viewed of a girl as unattractive, and then when I talk more often with her and it appears she's always complaining about things in her appearance.. my skin this, my hair so, my lovehandles. Yeah, then I began to think she is unattractive indeed. Just and only because she isn't able to see that she's perfectly fine. And I see it so very often I see it in guys a lot too, by the way. They're living up to what they think are the standard everybody else wants them to see. Fuck that!

 

well i definitely don`t think i`m really pretty, i think i look like a human
and its definitely not because i think its cool to think i don`t look good or anything close to that,it`s because i have other notion of what pretty is.

 

We look like pretty humans with good and bad days, but at least we look like ourself

Not saying people can't create a certain look without being themselves by the way! But yeah, do it because you like it and don't be a crybaby if you do it because whatever different reason and find out you don't feel like you.

 

hahaha. i like how this is in true confessions, like it's a dirty secret. i don't get the self hate thing, either.

 

when the girls i talk to say this, they'r just fishing for compliments. theyr asking for people to say "omg no you look hawt bitchhh"... the girls i talk to know theyr good looking and when they say this i agree and just say, yea you kinda do look like shit today..

 

if youre not a Perfect 10 youre not pretty lol

 

I don't understand the self-deprecation either. you've got the hand you've been dealt, make the best of it.

on the other hand, if all girls thought they were ugly maybe some of the prettier ones would try to develop a nice personality when otherwise they wouldn't even bother...

 

late bloomer syndrom is the best.

my older brother was the beautiful one in the family. he's always been a high maintenence drama queen who expects the world to move according to his command.

my family drove him insane.