Hi im 21 and ever since I can remember ive always liked girls especially older woman but ive always gone out with guys and slept with them ive never enjoyed going out/sleeping with them as I would imagine i would with girls, I get really turned on when I look at girls and ive even opted to watching lesbian porn. My mums a lesbian so I know my family dont have a problem with it but im scared for my self, not for caring what people would think but more along of the lines of finding a girl whos a lesbian n understanding that I'd be new to it with no experience what so ever.
The wonderful thing about us women is how nurturing we can be. Dont overthink it, its who you are so own it! You will be just fine. And if you and your mom are close enough get her thoughts on this. Best of luck!
I agree with Desera here..very often it's the fear of showing sexual identity towards the world which creates a dilemma.. if one is hetero,gay,lesbian or transgender...people have no right to judge you on that issue... @lifegoeson=be yourself and do not look back on what others think about you.. a true lesbian if she's really going for you...you got nothing to fear then for yourself.. I got lesbian friends and they told me even in a city as big as Ghent...there is a stigma..people judge them and comment on their behaviour.. which i think is totally wrong... :devil: i'm a hetero and that's it...so...if you're lesbian..that's it as well.. greetings, Tiger