So I have been seeing this chick for a couple of months and I think i'm falling for her. We haven't had sex yet. tonight I picked her up from the bar and she was really drunk. Me and her brother got her to bed but she didn't want me to leave, so I stayed for a bit. Next thing I know she shoves my hand down her pants and says she wants me inside her. Didn't want it to happen while she is so drunk or with her 8 year old sleeping 10 feet away in another bed. But she didn't want to take no for an answer. I should have just left then, but instead we start making out and she takes her clothes off and forplay commences....... Her kid wakes up and starts yelling says He doesn't ever want me here again. Fuuuck! I feel so fucking stupid! Her kid hates me now and I am afraid she will in the morning. So hoping she remembers everything that happened
nice work traumatizing the kid....if the kid tells the wrong adult that mom can lose custody....not to mention the kid will take this memory to the grave....you cant ''unsee'' your drunken mom being slammed by the new boyfriend you likely already resent lol good luck....
It wasn't that far along when he woke up thankfully. It was dark he didn't see anything. Just heard noises
Be ready to apologize like crazy! Hopefully she will remember how insistent she was and won't be mad. Be prepared to give the kid a bit of space for a few days too. Or depending on what the mother thinks, you may want to sit down with her kid and explain that that only happened because you care about his mom very much.
Well she just called and apologized to me. Still drunk but am sure she will remember now. Thank you random internet people had no one to talk to and was kinda freaking out Thanks for the supportive reply Mattekat
Ok, so you weren't ham-slammin yet, but what was he freaking out about? A strange dude in the house that he didn't expect? Probably. At 8 any kid can be a spaz about the least little shit. What you have learned though is that when she's drunk, you want to be alone! Next time, take her into a bathroom, and turn on a fan in the room where everyone is sleeping and do your best to keep the drunken wench quiet whilst porkin her. I don't think you've cause any lasting trauma. Personally, I admire your ability to yes for an answer, but be careful. She might be looking for Daddy #2.
In all fairness to you shes the mom and therefore she is the one who fucked up. Being drunk isnt a good enough excuse for bad parenting. Im not really trying to lay the judgement gauntlet down on her, just pointing out she cant really hold it against you
I was just worried that she was too drunk to remember exactly what happened. Thankfully she wasn't. Her son seems to be warming up to me. We went out to dinner with her two boys last weekend. Me and him talked about minecraft and what not. It went really good. Don't think he completely hates me now.
