I think I am a lesbian

But I didn't confirm I said let me check first and make sure. Women are too mcuh drama I am learning already. I wanted to be a lesbian because I was sick of men and I do like boobs but now that I have stopped working I have a completley knew patience for guys. I don't think I wanna work again. I think I wanna finish gradschool get married and have kids, My friend who is a stay at home mom loves it and I love our drunken lunches since I got laid off. I think I want to pull a 180 and be a trophy wife who occasionaly kisses women and hits up strip joints.

 

lol... yeah, I think, THINK you have to like more than just the boobs to be a lesbian. At least thats the word on the street these days. You crack me up!

 

damn it...yeah when it comes down to it I don't think I could go deep see diving...besides men just smell so freakingg ood and they are so huge and erhmmm.

 

well.. i think its best that you've decided to be straight after all. You are ahead of the game figuring it out before you got into a relationship! My bestfriend's ex dated her for over a year before figuring it out!

 

I don't think you should blame the whole gender for her actions

I would keep my options open if I were you
don't close any doors just yet

 

Lynsey, you sound bi to me. Maybe your natural inticts are to be monogamous, therefore you feel presssed to choose a sexual preference. Take it day to day. Work towards schooling and family if you'd like, but you don't have to drop your attraction to women (if its real, you likely won't). There are men out there, like myself, that would love to have a bi wife. NOT for joining in and always having threesome, but becuase we like bi women, and or might have some bi tendencies ourselves.

People have all types of relationships in this world. There's married women with female fuck buddies, some with good friends with benefits, some women are even polyamorous. Just put one step in front of the other at this time. You'll see farther ahead in the days to come.

P.S. being non-monogamous isn't for everyone, but there are bi women that are monogamous and indulge in fantasy and lusting after women only. I kinda don't see the point, but some people can't seperate sex from emotions.

 

I'm not manongomaus either unles I am really happy with somone, which I still haven't found yet.

Thank you for writting that it made me feel normal

 

You chased your tail around in that one.

 

HEy Lynsey! Ive read this entire thread, and you remind me of me SO much! Having feelings for girls can be really scary and difficult to understand. I think the best conclusion that I have come up with is that life is a wonderful and amazing thing. You cant worry about the things that you cannot change. If you like women then thats great, if your not sure if you like women thats completely normal and the best thing to do is not rush it. Just be open minded and take risks when it comes to relationships. Love comes in every shape, and in the end love is what matters. Discovery your sexual identity is something that occurs over time. And remember you dont need to be straight, bi, lesbian. Limitations are your worst enemy, so dont limit yourself.

 

Thank you!!! I love how yu said love takes different forms, that's how I feel. Why should I limit my dating pool because of someone's shell?

 

hahehhhhfffffrggg I know I have a hard time with monogamy...but I want all the traditional things in a decade or so