I think I am a lesbian

girl, you are worrying about it way too much. Its just a little note!

I always found girls to be much easier than guys. At the bar a girl would come up and say "Hey... can I get you a drink?" If you were interested, you said "sure" and walked off with her. If you weren't, you said "thanks for the offer, but no thank you". There was none of the usual "hey... nice tits" shit that men give you, and the ladies are always a lot more polite. lol.

But you are right when you said that men go for being cute, and that women need more. Don't get me wrong, a cutie still turns a head at the bar... but if thats all she is, it gets tired quickly. I am sure you are neurotic enough to maintain a girl's interest! haha!

Good luck on your explorations!

*bar = gay club*

 

hah well tommorow is my last day at work and I am sure I am going to want a drink by myself...i think i will try a gay bar! thanks

 

Jeez, relax! She's a friend, not a typing instructor... she'll understand. Just be open, be honest, and let it unfold. Don't try to make anything in particular happen. But don't be afraid of it if it comes your way.

 

This girl sounds like what I want:
www.sandiego.craigslist.org/w4w/225648295.html

 

I got a hot best friend thats gay and recently moved to SD, med student....
I could arrange a meeting.......
in fact in her words, she lives near Gay Town...I am not familiar enough with SD to know where/if a gay district exists.

Seriously PM me if you wanna meet her ( I doubt I will come back to this thread unless a Buddy was the last poster in the active threads search).
I will even show up if it makes a weird situation easier, but if you go that route...well I live far away......
dont know when I can be there before years end for sure

 

giggedy, I love that, dayum.

 

she hasn't read my emails yet...*nervous*

 

Years ago I kinda went thru a questionable phase. My best friend was Bi. I was curious but very scared. We kissed once and that was it. After that my feelings changed.

This is huge for you. Definitly be honest with your friend when you talk. There is nothing set in stone that says you have to commit to these feelings. Maybe she'd be a good sounding board for you to talk to her about your feelings.

Have you mentioned anything to your friend in San Fran about this?

 

I gotta run but score I got a yes!!!!!!!!! I have my first official date with a girl!!! :

sounds good. Let me know when. (Next weekend I am in Poway for a friend's play, maybe we could do that and then get some drinks?)

 

*squeals* Go Lynsey, go Lynsey!

 

I am sooooooooo excited!!! A play is an intimate date, def not something we ever did as friends...I like to that she picked when she would be close to my house because she lives in the city, that was so considerate of her...mmmmmm

 

No my core group of friends would not handle it well. We kiss and all that when we are drunk and cuddle and sleep in the same bed but none of them know I like women...I don't think we'd be as close. Katie does like to bite my nipples though d:

I would tell them if I was 100 percent sure, I would tell Katie anyway, but ot my other friends.

 

You do whatever makes you happy...life is way too short !!!!

 

AHahahahaha

 

lynsey, don't concentrate too much on the label itself, go with what you feel.

I dont think anyone really has a sexual orientation, honestly.... but thats my opinion.

 

you dont just do that stuff being "straight" as they call it; chances are, the only reason they would never admit to being attracted to other women is because of the same fear you have... "what are other people going to think"

You dont have to tell anyone about it, just do what you feel. I dont know why its such a big deal anyway you know?

 

Let us know how the date goes hon!

 

Good for you lynsey!! The world needs more lesbians!

 

I can't go to the play because I have family obligations and now she's pissed at me): I already don't like being a lesbian. I even told her I would drive to her neck of the woods and she just didn't respond ): Someone just not responsding is the worst, it's what people do when they don't care ):

 

Hmmm, I'd be annoyed at rescheduling the first date too unless it was something fairly serious. Just be persistent and apologetic