I think am bisexual need advice ?

recently i found that Ive been watch gay pornography and Ive had gay fantasy's in my dreams but i still watch straight porn but i don't seem really attractive to woman that's probably because all my ex girlfriends were idiots

if you have any advice please leave a response

 

well am guess nobody has any advice ?

 

I've got some advice - for what it's worth. You don't need to wonder what you are - just go along with what you fancy! I'm like you, and it feels fine. Contact me via the site if you want to discuss anything between us. I like chatting to like minded souls. Gary

 

What is it you like about what you watch? That may give you the answer you need.

If you get aroused by gay or straight porn then you may be bi, but if you find you are more fascinated than excited, it may just be your way of understanding those who have different preferences than you. there was a study done some time ago that proved many men preferred to see a large penis in straight porn because it was more arousing to them, but this did not make them gay.

 

"Nox lumen"- yeah its mostly a mix both but mostly gay porn but more exited than fascinated

 

Ok, you may be leaning that way. or you could be a voyeur and excieted by watching. Either way, your personal urges will tell you how far you want to explore this.

Though food for though: For a while I was so disappointed with dating men, I thought I may be open to dating a woman. My interest was companionship, and eventually I realized I would make a poor lesbian since I didn't have any intrest in actualy doing anything sexual with a girl. Had I gone forward with my curiosity with a person, I could have hurt someone's feelings badly, since no person wants to feel sexually undesirable, so it's good that I worked it out within my head first. Good luck if you are bi or gay, but please consider others feelings before experimenting.

 

well I had been in the same situation, all thoughts I am bisexual guy until I got my first anal sex wirth a gay guy in several time, after that I felt that I was just curious to have fun with bi nd gay guys.

 

i am 45 years old all my toughts about my sexual life that I am bi guy especially after my first sexual contacts with a gay guys, who loves my body and my bum as well, I only like to recieve from others and I still like that until I met my new g/f who was so open and she accept me as I am. the things she never been against having anal sex with other guy but she always insist to be with me and she always to refuse to be away from me. the question is I dont get all my orgasm with guys in her presence despite she dont bothers me when she touch me or kiss me during it, secondly I noticed that she prefer seeing me taken by many guys and she never allowed me to have fun with her bisexual mate.?
any explanation to this behavior?*S*

 

After my second marriage a light bulb went off - personal trust issues maybe, but I ended up hanging around with swingers. When junk starts touching I did not mind so I was asking myself the same thing. "Does that make me Bi or gay?" I would watch the gay porn and like yourself was mostly curious. Over the course of the next year I made it a point to find out. I took that next step and actually topped and bottomed a few men (group) ~ I came to the conclusion that it didn't really do it for me, but I still like the group thing with women being the center of attention.

So even though I've done 'gay' things, I don't consider myself as such. Bi at the most. Still playing with couples with a little oral cock play on the side.