I swallowed for the 1st time last night...

You'd be surprised at how we'd all feel if we just got our way with who ever we were with. Maybe I would like my guy to eat me out in front of is own mother just to spite her, hahaha.

Seriously, with any man I have been with the topic has never come up, we have too much fun to be concerned about it I guess. Where I see it come up is maybe a place like this where it seems to be a concern or on videos.
I think I have been with 5 men in my time for serious long term relationships that ended for various reasons and if all five didnt have this perticular concern to even ask once then do you really think it matters to most as is being suggested here? I think not.
I am one who can talk openly with almost anyone who is the same, usually good friends and my lovers and never yet has a man complained his wife or girlfriend wouldnt do such a thing and he needed her to. Once a good male friend confided with me about his girlsfriend's need to stick butt plugs in his ass during sex. She was on the idea all the time and he wasnt into it after he let her try it once. I told him dont and tell her you wont, if she leaves then its about the plug, not you and you just dont need her. So its not a one way street here, some people, men and women just think they need it their way for some reason and there really is a happy medium in sex. If not its not what it should be between both.
I say if you need it to happen so bad then ask, bets are if she likes to do it you wont have to ask. If she says no then get on with whats really important,,, touching, connecting, loving, and the Most ultimate feeling of all a really great fucking orgasm that leaves you breathless and wanting to do it again.
My BF now says his only complaint he ever had with sex is one of his Xs did a lot of drugs so sex with her was like sticking it in a mail box and his other X liked it about 4 times a year which wasnt enough for him. He likes it that I am all over him like a rabbit.

 

do it every day

 

Getting a girl to swallow my semen gives my the best ever feeling.

I love girls who swallow.

 

same here

 

Every day?

 

Swallowing is just clean up. My bf loves cumming in my mouth, and I love it too, but once he's cum, he pretty much doesn't care what happens! I've swallowed an spit, whatever is convenient.

 

I really enjoy my husband cumming in my mouth. I didn't always at first, but it grew on me, like an acquired taste. I didn't like beer as a teenager, but love it now, same concept I suppose.

I think part of it comes from giving him head being such a huge turn-on for me. By the time he's ready to cum I'm really into it and want him to cum in my mouth. Can't say I'm a huge fan of him pulling it out of me and cumming in my mouth, but definitely love finishing him off after sucking him.

 

Just wanted to say a big THANKYOU to all of you wonderful ladies who let us horny men cum into your mouth. For me, it's not important whether you spit or swallow because the feeling of cumming into your woman's mouth is possbly the best feeling a man can ever experience.
Thankyou all so much and for fucks sake please carry on doing it....for ever!

 

this

 

I registered just to post, in the hope that it would persuade women sitting on the fence to consider a few view points, and also men who wish women would.

First off - I am a lucky guy. Married for over 10 yrs, wife swallows, does pretty much every thing I've ever wanted, including anal. It goes both ways - I take care of her needs with love and care, and strive to improve with the years.

I never did ask for her to swallow, but she understood, without my input, that you wouldn't give oral to a guy and finish him off with your hands (assuming oral wasn't just foreplay). That's like licking a woman and then using your hands to bring her to orgasm - it just doesn't feel the same.

That said, my point is, if your intention is to bring him to orgasm orally, it would really be nice to try and finish him orally. Personally for me, the intensity is the same whether you swallow, or spit, or simply allow the cum to overflow (equivalent to spitting, except you are spitting immediately, with the penis still in your mouth). But the feeling ... of coming in the mouth of someone you love, is unlike anything else, for me. Vaginal, anal - nothing comes close. I feel loved, in a way that's hard to express in words.

Hopefully, for women, that helps. Cumming in your mouth does not equate swallowing, and I think many men would agree.

Now, for men. Asking a woman to swallow ... if she's willing to let you cum in her mouth, I would think it's really *unkind* to demand that she also swallow it? I don't think this is asked often, and most of the posts I read on this thread seems to support my opinion that we (men) don't really care what happens to the semen so long as we get to finish orally. And for the record, I find the taste off-putting. I am not bi, or gay, but in the interest of "ask of others what you are willing to do yourself", I had to give it a go. Perhaps because I realise it's not necessarily a taste anyone might enjoy, it intensifies the feeling of being loved.

And for what it's worth, what you eat matters. Sweets make your semen sweeter. Lots of normal foods seem to make it quite unpleasant, unfortunately. Pineapple does make it taste good, I'm told.

Hope it helps someone.

 

It is sweet to not be pressured or anything. Well congratulations.

 

Been married thrice, wives 1.0, 2.0, and 3.0

1.0 was young, cute as a button, liked sex, but did not swallow. Was with her 3 years.

2.0 was 4 years later, rather plain, had never orgasmed until I taught her, did not swallow but rather let it run out while she continued to suck. Kissed me once with cum on her lips, pretty hot. Her pussy was a 'snapper'. With her 20+ years and 2 kids.

3.0 simply adores cum. Swallows /licks it all up. Rims too. With her 14 years, married 9.

 

To Daktozin, the truth is some women might need to finish off with the hands, for me oral is just that, oral and I can't cum that way. If he kept on with his mouth he would be forever and I don't expect that even tho it does feel good while it's happening. If a guy said he didn't like to do it that would be ok, it's one of those things I am not all about having done even tho I never say no. Any man I have been with liked doing it, some were neat about it where they didn't get their whole face involved and some just go like an animal, it's all over them when done. Everyone is different.
Any woman or man who couldn't cum unless oral is done has it in their head he/she can only cum that way. That's nonsense. if I had to climax the same exact way every time I loose interest.
Truth be told when I left a guy and was with a new lover sex was never the same because if I sat and wished for What I had I would be like many here,,, can't cum till it's what it used to be, when in fact the difference of a new lover was welcomed and they taught me much more then the last, showing me there are new ways to climax.
And to Shock3, it's wonderful to see a man and woman who have been married 50+ years and still going but when I think about that I also wonder if they missed what you and I have gained by finding the new and improved way of sex, so to put it in a humorous kind of way haha.
But ya I like your thinking Daktozin, no man or woman should demand a dislike of the partner be acted out. That kills the sex life between two people. If that partner isn't enough and sex is first up on the relationship goals, a person needs to keep shopping for one who will do what they like. What we had in the past is not a given for ever. it's rare to find a woman or man who likes everything our past partners did.
For me it's about loving my man for many reasons before I even worry about what he will do For me, mind you I am not shy and I make sure it isn't gonna be a problem before he gets in. I let him know I don't do or want damaging scaring sex acts and I am not onto group sex or anal but other then that I am pretty adventurous and if it sounds like he isn't into those few things or couldn't care about it then it looks like we are good to go. I make it come out in the wash before the load is done spinning. Speaking of washing machines,,, we haven't played on that yet. haha

 

I think coming into a woman's mouth is the ultimate turn on. If a man has a woman who will allow him to come in her mouth, he should appreciate the wonderful gift she is giving him.

 

Well done you. it only gets better

 

Pride and Ego boost as you swallow it.
I generally prefer if a girl does swallow my cum as she truly shows me her affection.

 

I tellya..once you get a blowjob and swallow, you follow your wife around like a lap dog..she wants something?? you get it for her..

 

my wife doesnt like cum in mouth but then she doesnt like sex at all nowadays. I have been fortunate to have a few flings with lovely ladies who have had no problem about taking my cum in their mouths and it is such a perfect ending to a BJ. Swallowing or not doesnt bother me but these have all swallowed without missing a beat and it does seem the easiest most logical thing to do

 

Had a girfriend who wouldn't swallow. Finally she did and from that point on swallowed every chance she got. would even ask me to pull out of her pussy to cum in her mouth. For her it was the fear of not knowing. Once she did it the first time everything after was golden.

 

I love swallowing. The first time I came in my own mouth. This turns me on like no other, and honestly I'm not against just gifting BJs without asking anything in return.