I don't want to make the OP feel any worse, or start an argument but what the hell is going on with so many women cheating lately? I see it with my friends, at work, online, shit everywhere I go I am hearing stories of women cheating and at least half of them claim to care about the guy they cheated on. I know men are out there cheating also but it seems like all of the sudden a good portion of the female population just caught some kind of cheating virus. Old Troll hit the nail on the head when he said he has the freedom but does not exercise it. You don't have to draw a line for yourself but if you cheat you risk so many things, paternity issues, std's... catching them and passing them along, hurting someone that you may find out later is someone you truly love, etc. If you are already in a sexual relationship, is it worth the risk to cheat?