why don't you stop trying to tell us about it and actually have a face to face conversation about it with HER you tool. this doesnt have even the slightest impact on any of us here, and only minimal interest for people other than me, im sure...personally i couldnt care much less. but seriously, grow the hell up and talk to HER about your relationship problems, rather than being a little crybaby twat arguing with her on some stupid message board. how lame can you get? why would you expect to write derogatory things about her under her username and have her NOT delete them? seriously, you seem like you have some MAJOR problems, so get the fuck over yourself and get what you can take, and like i said, don't make any babies....