I REALLY need your help, because i'm not sure where to go from here.

LMFAO, I love you man

 

I'll give you an honest reply now

You're 19...that means you either stay there with them and put up without complaints and do your share of the house chores....

...or move out.

There's really no other answer.

 

yep agree completly. today was the final straw of my 'putting up' im gonig to find a job. save up, get out.

 

it's way easier to just put up with it

 

That bit of wisdom comes almost exclusively via experience. Sometimes the easy route isn't necessarily the best route.

 

shut up dad

 

lol

Although I agree that the easiest path isn't always the best.

 

everyones path is different...some of us here just to serve as warnings to others

 

Yeah, like my path is really ugly and lame... but you gotta take what comes

 

Canary in the mine shaft type of warning?

 

You're 19. You should have a job, work towards moving out. I had a shitty home life in that sense as well. If you were younger I would sympathize a little more, but you're and adult now and need to make changes in your life if want out that bad.

Just avoid them as much as possible until you find an out.

 

Yep, you're right. Job searchin.

 

good luck homeslice

 

I'm in the same position as you. I'm only 17, though I'm graduating from high school in a couple months. My mom is pretty cool to me, but my dad doesn't like me at all. So yeah, that's great. He's trying to say that I'm getting kicked out when I'm 18 (which is in August). And yeah, he just treats me like crap a lot of the time. So I can relate.

I'm in the process of trying to get a good job too, so I can save up lots of money and move out. Sadly, I'm here in Michigan, which has one of the worst economies in the nation. So that's not really helping the pursuit all that much.

I would say that your best bet is just trying to find a job and then avoiding your dad/folks as much as you can, and try not to do something stupid that will cause them to kick you out.

Sorry that you have to go through a situation like this. It's too bad that things like this happen.

 

youre 17 so employers are going to believe that you have no useful skills. take any job you can get and save up your dough. you're not going to find a good job anytime soon.

 

Yeahhh. I'm afraid that you're probably right about that. America sucks

 

america's the shit, you can do anything here. just depends on where you are.

 

My mother would probably adopt you if you told her your story. And I'm Serious!! she's lovely like that

 

haha thanks! ya I pretty much worked out the home stuff for now.

 

ya talked to them or something? killed them?