Ok, so I'm new here and really need some advice. I hope this doesn't get too long but here goes. This is embarrassing but I am just realizing that I am totally inexperienced in a lot of ways. My ex-husband was my first...my first everything. We were together since we were teenagers and I had never touched another man sexually until after we divorced. He wasn't very...err adventurous I guess I should say. Sex with him was always the same...15 minutes of missionary and it was over for the night. No seconds or anything. Now, moving on. After we divorced I had a one night stand once that to be honest I was too drunk to remember most of...lol Shortly after that I met my boyfriend and we have been together for 6 months. He is WAY more experienced than I am. It's like he knows every spot to touch me or kiss me and he teases me until I can't take it anymore before he actually lets me have it. When he finally does, it immediately sends me into an over the top mind blowing orgasm like nothing I have ever felt! Once he gets started he lasts for a long time and constantly switches everything up. I don't think there is a position we haven't tried and I end up having 4-5 orgasms every time we have sex. The only problem is, I constantly worry about how it feels for him. I feel like there's just no way I can measure up. Most of the time I give him complete control because I am scared to take control myself. The only time I ever get on top is when he asks me to or he rolls over and pulls me onto him. Once I'm there it feels really awkward to me because I don't know if I'm doing stuff right. All I know is what feels good for me. I'm completely clueless on how to please him. The only thing I know for sure that he likes is when I give him oral. I can tell he likes that because it doesn't take long for him to cum and he trembles from head to toe. I have tried to ask him what other things feel good but I don't really get anywhere asking him. He always says "yes" if I ask if a certain thing feels good and if I ask what he likes in general he says "I like it all." I am a very sensitive person who gets her feelings hurt easily and even though I've told him it won't, I think he's afraid it will hurt my feelings if he speaks up. So I don't really get any specifics but I feel like he wants me to take control more. More than anything, I really just want to surprise him and take control. I want to tease him the way he teases me and give him that build up before I put it in. But I have no idea how to go about doing this! I have such a fear of looking like an idiot that I just chicken out before attempting it. I need some tips that could help me out on knowing what to do so that I might be able to build up my confidence enough to try. So is there anyone who could give me some advice on what I should do? Like what would be a good way to just drive him crazy and make him want me the way he makes me want him?